However, some parents give their children nicknames too casually. They just try to be casual and relaxed, but they don't notice such names at all. Although parents want their children to be good, they can't give them nicknames casually, otherwise it will bring unexpected harm to their children.
Because it really hurts children's self-esteem, parents need to pay more attention to this aspect and try to express their love more perfectly.
Everyone has a nickname, but not everyone is willing to tell everyone his nickname, because it is hard to say many times, such as what is fat, Niu Niu, dog eggs and so on, which is a bit hard to say!
The other day, when I was walking downstairs, I saw such a scene. A girl cried sadly because her nickname and her mother were unhappy.
Mom, the neighbor's dog has the same name as me! This little girl is a child of our unit. She is a cheerful and sunny girl. According to her mother, because she was born with a lot of hair, her family gave her a nickname "Mao Mao" on a whim.
In this way, "Mao Mao" came to "Mao Mao" for six years, and the children all acquiesced that this was their own name. But in the past, because the child was not sensible and had no knowledge, she felt quite good.
But now Mao Mao thinks this name is really ugly, because when she was downstairs that day, she heard an aunt calling Mao Mao all the time. She thought she was calling her, so she ran happily to her aunt and asked her, "What did you call me?"
However, this move puzzled menstruation, so he had to inadvertently say, "Little girl, I'm calling my puppy. It's called Mao Mao. "
What, is your name Mao Mao? This made the little girl cry loudly and directly, and then ran frantically to her mother, crying and saying, "Mom, why is my name the same as the dog's?"
Everyone present felt that the scene at that time was really embarrassing, and my mother was a little helpless. I didn't expect that the nickname she gave the child at that time would bring such harm to the child.
It is ok to give children nicknames, which is also supported by everyone. However, parents should know that children's nicknames should not be messed up. They should take care of the child's mood, avoid these three points, and prevent the child from being ridiculed by the outside world, otherwise it will be a mental torture for the child and hurt their own psychology. Naming is a cautious thing. We should try our best to be serious and responsible!
You can have nicknames, but parents should avoid three minefields! Don't insult people.
No matter what kind of nickname, the first rule parents need to follow is not to use insulting words. The name is the image displayed to the outside world.
It is what we shout every day and what children hear every day, even if there is an unintentional little word in it, it will bring great harm to children. For example, names like dog eggs and dog shit are really uncomfortable, not to mention the fact that children are so self-respecting nowadays. We don't want to hurt the children!
Don't be like a pet name.
Many parents like to give their children names similar to pets, because pets are cute, and sometimes parents will inevitably pin their love on their children.
But I didn't realize that the names of people and pets can't be used. After all, the pet's name is still arbitrary. Children with such nicknames will feel uncomfortable, hungry and sad, so don't be so hard on them. We should take care of their inner feelings and be responsible for their physical and mental health!
Don't bring children's defects.
Out of respect for people, we all know that we can't expose shortcomings, that is, no matter who we are in front of, we can't face each other's shortcomings, which will be embarrassing.
But also destroy their relationship, especially in public. If the shortcomings of a soft child are exposed in this way, the child will certainly not be able to bear it.
Then some parents like to put their children's physical characteristics in their names. For example, children who are a little shorter are simply called "short", those who are a little fatter are called "fat", and those who are stupid and thick are even called "dull".
These names sound really embarrassing, not to mention they are always with children. So such a name must not appear in the world of children!
When giving children nicknames, parents must be extra careful not to express their feelings too casually on their children's names!