# Parenting There Are Ways #
Many couples have already begun to dream about a better future when they are dating, which includes naming their upcoming children. But if the child has a relatively uncommon surname, it is very difficult to name it, because there are many kinds of surnames in China. Although some are well-known to everyone, some are very rare. It is really difficult to choose a good name.
Therefore, sometimes a short name actually carries the parents’ ardent expectations and best wishes for their children. A seemingly simple and easy task requires only choosing two or three words. In fact, it is a great test of parents’ literary attainments. Because we both want to have meaning and hope that no one will give our children nicknames in the future, what exactly should we pay attention to when naming our children?
First, do not use uncommon words
Sometimes rare words will cause certain obstacles for others to pronounce, although it can be reduced if fewer people use them. The probability of having the same name may inadvertently bring some pressure. For example, during roll call at school, students do not know the word, so they will not rush to communicate with the child, which blocks the child's first step in social interaction.
What’s even more difficult to adapt to is that it takes a lot of time every time you write your name. When you were a child, it took at least a few minutes to write it. As you grow up, your writing speed gradually increases, but when you encounter A lot of time will be wasted during large exams. In short, try not to name your child with uncommon words, and do not bring unnecessary trouble to your child, because no one will like a name that no one else knows, and no one will like a name that is very difficult to write.
Second, men should not use female names and women should use male names.
We all say that men and women are different because the long-lasting images of men and women in society are completely different. If given If a boy chooses a girl's name that is inconsistent with his nature, it will be inappropriate and may be used as a conversation piece by others. Similarly, if a very masculine name is given to a gentle woman, it will also cause a lot of trouble.
Third, the name should not be too vulgar.
Sometimes parents are very casual when faced with this kind of problem, and do not pay much attention to the knowledge of naming, or other people’s names. You can call your children whatever they want. This leads to a high rate of duplication of children's names, and it may also be too tacky. The streets are full of people with this name. If it is too common, it will be difficult for others to remember it. live.
Fourth, it cannot be too "big"
"Big" means that parents have put too much expectations and hopes into their children's names, and the children have been working hard despite it. If you live a life that cannot be achieved, you will be exhausted and have great psychological pressure. Because your abilities do not match your name, you will become more and more inferior and even choose to give up on yourself.
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