In general, if you ask the other person's name, you should be added, which will show more respect to the other person. Then, in order to show sincerity, you can report your name first, and when you ask, you should be humble and generous. Such as: hello, my name is xxx；; What's your name, please Or: hello, my name is xxx；; Could you please tell me your name?
Of course, if you chat up a girl, you can directly give her a name by opening remarks: my name is xxx. Nice to meet you. Then she will definitely take the initiative to say her name. Or you look like my friend. What's your name?
High EQ chat method
1. Remember the name and position of the other person. Even unfamiliar people, when talking with unfamiliar people, adding the other person's name in front is more intimate than not adding the name; Familiar people use nicknames more intimately than their real names.
2. Try to reduce "monologue-style speeches" or long speeches. Once the voice falls, it will easily lead to a situation of silence and embarrassment for both sides.
3. One of the ways to make a person less wary of you is to expose his own shortcomings appropriately. There is a "make a fool of yourself effect" in psychology, which means that people subconsciously prefer those who have a little shortcoming. So when you expose some insignificant shortcomings, you can make the other person more relaxed, and at the same time, it will be easy to think that you are trusted and open your heart to you.
4. During the conversation, nod your head and make eye contact and attention with the other person, indicating approval and listening patiently.
5. To win someone's favor quickly, repeat his actions during the conversation. For example, if the other person drinks water, you also drink water; When the other person nods, you nod. People will feel better about people and behaviors similar to themselves.