Dream of taking the fall for others: start your complaint with praise as much as possible. On the one hand, it can reduce the hostility of the other party, and more importantly, your praise sets a standard for the other party in advance. Remember, the person who listens to your complaint may have nothing to do with what you want to complain about, or even know what it is. If you get angry at the beginning, it will only arouse the hostility and defensive reaction of the other party. We might as well learn from the cup and settle the pain at the bottom. If you shake those painful memories endlessly, the whole glass of water will become restless and turbid, and you will lose all the happiness in your life. And if you are willing to calm them down slowly, embrace them with a broad mind and reflect on them with a rational and intelligent mind, then your mind will be as clear as a stream, your life will be freed from the bitterness of the past, and you will make yourself happier and more valuable.
Newcomers in the workplace dream of taking the blame for others and taking charge of the workplace: they will have the idea of catching up at work, are highly motivated, and are very active and efficient in doing everything, regardless of size, but they are often too subjective.