Generally, young girls don't have much experience in this field. I haven't thought too much. It would be a shock to suddenly discover the secret of that place. It's not good to talk about your new discovery everywhere.
Things happen to others. That man is just looking, not helping. It means trouble is only for women. It may be your friend. Or it could be yourself.
In my dream, I may be two people at the same time. Helping her may be self-help. Maybe it's between two selves
Anyway, you don't feel very good about it at the moment. It seems that it is all women's troubles, which is unfair.
There is also a process to understand these things.