It means that you can't refuse a request that makes you feel embarrassed. The sense of loss that comes from time to time will make you feel very tired if you let it out through indulgence. A friend who shares your ideals and interests is what you need more at the moment.
Good or bad luck has a solid foundation, which can avoid disasters, but it can also overcome all difficulties, enjoy the prosperity of fame and fortune, and achieve unexpected success. It is a good name for happiness and longevity. Dajichang
-"Duke of Zhou"