Let me give you my opinion.
First of all, it is a colorful phoenix. There is nothing to say. I think it means wealth and good luck. Phoenix is also a metaphor for the queen and a good omen.
In your description, there is another sentence, called naturally falling in front of yourself. This means that this is a natural thing, which seems to tell you not to be too angry. Your children and grandchildren have their own blessings. If you are too angry, you are only worried about yourself. Then let it be!
Let's talk about that basin of water again. Water is the yin in yin and yang, the moon in the sun and moon, and the woman in men and women. I think it means your daughter. Phoenix brings water, which means wealth, auspiciousness and so on are all related to your daughter. On the whole, this is indeed an auspicious dream.
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The following are my personal opinions and suggestions.
Don't worry too much about your daughter. She has her own fortune and destiny. Parents can be parents, but not too demanding. No matter how young your daughter is, she has her own way, just as you had your own way when you were a child. If you are worried, try to let it go.
In this dream, I see more of my daughter's innate blessing and his own willingness to exchange his blessing for wealth. I don't need to say too much. As a parent, when my daughter has a successful career and a happy marriage, I should persuade her to stop-this is my personal suggestion. Dreams are dreams of wealth and advice.