Ideal is the guiding light. Without ideals, there is no firm direction; Without direction, you lose the motivation to move forward.
The goal of life is what we are willing to pursue all our lives, which is in line with our values.
But we must understand that although you are almost proud of getting anything you want, you can't get everything you want.
Choosing a goal means giving up what you want in order to get what you want more.
Setting goals will let you know clearly what you want in the end, and make your wishes more specific, clear and definite.
It can ensure that you plan your time and energy more reasonably, do things that are helpful to you, and make your life more meaningful.
If you don't set goals, you will feel that you don't know what to do every day and people will feel lazy.
Wherever you go in your work, you are only busy meeting the expectations of people around you, and never plan for the future.
Second, how to achieve your life goals?
With a goal, we should do what we should do to achieve it, and make a reasonable plan for 5 years and 10 years.
Only by planning well can we make fewer detours, make fewer mistakes, get twice the result with half the effort and accomplish the set goals efficiently.
1) Stay focused: handle everything efficiently.
Each of us will have this experience:
In the process of doing things, the surroundings suddenly quieted down, and all we can feel is ourselves and the present.
When we came out of this state again, we didn't know that a few hours had passed and we had no feeling at all. This is concentration.
In order to stay focused, we need to be completely satisfied with our current experience.
Most people are focused because they are doing what they like. When we hate something, it is difficult to focus on it.
Therefore, we must learn to control our current emotions and change our views on one thing from the change of mentality, so that it is easier to concentrate on things.
Secondly, it is very important to set goals, which determines our views on one thing and whether we can concentrate on it.
2) Management by objectives: break down big goals into small ones.
A big goal is always so far away and even daunting in people's eyes. In fact, breaking down a big goal into small goals will have unexpected effects!
Senior students have met many people, although they have a clear goal map in mind, but because the road ahead is too long, some of them can't start, and even daunting.
Therefore, in order not to lose confidence in our busyness, we need to decompose our goals, constantly motivate ourselves by completing one small goal after another, and divide the long distance into several distance segments, one by one.
3) Learn to be flexible: base yourself on the present and adjust your goals.
The goal is actually a beacon within us, but there is always a gap between our goal and reality. How to face this gap, we need to be flexible.
Many times, the reason why we can't stick to our goals is that once there is a problem in real life, we will completely deny ourselves.
At this time, what we need is to adjust our goals and face the reality. We can adjust our methods according to the actual situation, which not only ensures flexibility, but also lets us know how to stick to it.
4) Learn to persist: a firm goal-valuable quality.
No matter how well the plan is made, it won't help if you don't stick to it.
You need to carry out your goals firmly, which requires self-discipline to strictly abide by. Always remember the connection between the task and the goal. When you can't see clearly, make a tentative decision and ask yourself why you can't see clearly.
People who stick to their goals have a reasonable and orderly to-do list and make sure that each item is marked in an orderly way. And there are clear measures to ensure that you strictly implement your goals.