In modern society, Baozi Lin's evil wife corresponds to the wolf's father and is naturally the tiger's mother. According to the entry, it probably refers to a woman who hates her children, fails to produce, and uses various high-pressure means such as curses and threats to ask her children to work hard along their own tailor-made road. Moreover, in contemporary times, there are not a few such women. As for their example, it is naturally Mencius' mother. Therefore, it is not an exaggeration for Meng Mu to be regarded as the most famous tiger mother in ancient times.
Mencius is the main reason why Meng Mu is famous throughout the ages. Mencius was a great man. Media certification is probably a generation of Confucian masters, who are second only to Confucius in history, or Asian saints. Why did Mencius achieve great success in his life? In addition to their own efforts and talents, many historical researchers have moved out of the fucking educational theory. So there is an allusion: Meng Mu moved three times.
This allusion is very famous and can be briefly summarized as follows:
Mencius' mother was widowed when she was young, and she lived with the young Mencius in a house near the cemetery. So much is definitely unacceptable. Knocking gongs and drums outside the door and crying, Mencius naturally meditated and learned some bad habits. Later, Meng Mu became cruel and sold the house. He bought a house in the city with a down payment, but it is close to the market. But after a while, Meng Mu was not satisfied again. After all, the market is too vulgar. In modern terms, people who cut in line, spit and make loud noises can be seen everywhere. This is definitely not conducive to quality education, so Meng Mu was cruel again, simply sold the property and rented a small apartment next to the school. If so, we will have the later well-known sage Meng.
Interestingly, the power of Meng Mu's role model circulating today has spawned many popular words, such as choosing students and school districts. And indirectly pushed up housing prices. However, light movement is not enough. Our tiger mother's words and deeds may be the main factor of Mencius' success. There is also an allusion here, which is called Meng Mu's fault.
The process is roughly as follows: One day, when Mencius came home from school, Meng Mu was sitting in front of the machine weaving. Meng Mu's son was still a child when Mencius checked his homework. He is inevitably playful, and he is likely to prevaricate. This time, Meng Mu lost his temper, raised his knife, hissed and cut the newly woven cloth, and the hemp rope fell to the ground. Looking at the dumbfounded Mencius, Tiger Mother snapped: Learning is like weaving. If you don't concentrate on your study, it's like a rag that you can't pick up again. If you study hard from time to time and often learn new things by reviewing old ones, you will never learn skills. Said, sobbing. Mencius was deeply moved and gradually developed good study habits.
Of course, Meng Mu was not the only tiger mother in ancient times. For example, mother-in-law can also be on the list. Of course, this mother-in-law is not a modern mother-in-law, but the mother of Yue Fei, a famous Southern Song Dynasty. Her story is also very famous, called mother-in-law tattoo.
Yue Fei was upright and young when my mother-in-law got a tattoo. At that time, the international situation in the Southern Song Dynasty was quite bad, and Xu Jin in the north often harassed it. Against this background, Yue Fei decided to join the army. Of course, her mother-in-law supports her. But at that time, the atmosphere in the army was not very good, and everyone was muddling along with their wages. Fighting is like playing a big drama. It is very lively to beat gongs and drums, but when the real nomads come, they rush away. My mother-in-law was afraid that Yue Fei would be infected with the bad atmosphere in the army, so she prayed to the gods and ancestors and tattooed four big characters on Yue Fei's back: loyalty to the country. The ancient tattoo technique is crude and inhuman, so try not to fade. Think about it, how painful it is. I'm afraid only this tiger mother can be cruel.
But in ancient times, although tiger mothers were strict with their children, the interaction between mother and child was more gentle and affectionate. Among them, the warmest and saddest is a record in Shuo Yuan Nian. This recorded hero is called Han. This Han family has a tiger mother. By chance, if anything goes wrong, Tiger Mother will scold him with a stick. Han's attitude is always kneeling, so he doesn't complain. Growing up, it is also because. Finally, one day, the tiger mother presented her instrument again and was severely beaten. Han threw the handle on the ground and burst into tears. The mother was surprised and asked, "Son, I hit you before, and you accepted it kindly." . Why today? "Korea said it was my fault that day. My mother hit me and I was hurt. I know my mother is in good health. Nowadays, my mother's strength is not as good as before. I know her energy has dropped. I'm afraid there are not many days in the future, so I'm not sad or crying.
It seems reasonable to kiss and scold love, and the tiger mother extends her filial son.
Text: White Horse Junyi