If you are not familiar with it, it is generally not wrong to start with the oldest.
If it is troublesome in the case of clear regulations, it must be issued in the order from high to low, and the elders at the same level will start first.
Also note: 1, no matter what occasion, ladies are preferred; Don't bother if there are not enough cigarettes. It is wise to stay honestly or buy another pack.
Lighting a cigarette is also very particular. Generally speaking, China people will order more by themselves after getting the respect (smoke) from each other. But if you meet arrogant people, non-smokers and people without lighters, you should order them again in the order of smoking.
The sequence is as follows: Hold the lighter in your right hand-move it 40 cm in front of the other person-light the lighter-palm of your left hand is inward, thumb is naturally opened, and the whole palm leans slightly outward against the lighter-and then slowly think about the other person's action until the other person reacts and lights it. If the other person doesn't move all the time, you can only come to him and light a cigarette (this kind of situation is rare, which only shows that the other person is arrogant).
The ignited person needs to adjust his neck slightly and gather to the flame in front of him. At this time, his right hand usually stands up, and his palm is placed above the other person's left hand to express his gratitude. If he is polite, he should gently knock off the other person's left hand while smoking fire.
The height of the whole cigarette lighting process is subject to the other party's suitability. Usually at the level of the opponent's chin.
As far as the specific seats of the dining table are concerned, the current norms of Chinese food are: the host sits in the middle of the top, the guest of honor is on the right, the deputy guest of honor is on the left, and the others are arranged from right to left and from top to bottom, as shown in figure 1:
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The setting of banquet ranking is a convention, so its time and space are quite different. However, according to the current concept in our country, the position should be respected first, then the age should be mentioned, and then the sex (women should be given priority to men) to show the concept of valuing women. Of course, this is the general pattern that will be followed after the chief seat is determined.
1, enjoy the whole people, don't whisper.
Most banquets have more guests, so try to talk about topics that most people can participate in and get the approval of most people. Because of different personal hobbies and knowledge, the topic should not be too biased as far as possible, so as not to be dominated by one family, far apart, and talk endlessly, leading to digression and ignoring everyone.
In particular, try not to whisper to others and give others a sense of mystery, which will often cause jealousy of "just the two of you" and affect the effect of drinking.
2, aim at both sides, grasp the overall situation
Most banquets have a theme, that is, the purpose of drinking. When you go to eat, you should first look at the expressions around you and prioritize. Don't drink for the sake of drinking, and lose a good opportunity to make friends, let alone let some grandstanding drinkers disturb the host's meaning.
3. Appropriate language and humor
Sprinkling it on the table can show a person's talent, common sense, self-cultivation and communication etiquette. Sometimes a humorous language will leave a deep impression on the guests and make people feel good about you invisibly. Therefore, it is very important to know when to say something, to use appropriate language, and to be humorous.
4, moderate persuasion, don't force.
On the wine table, we often encounter the phenomenon of persuading wine. Some people always like to regard the wine field as a battlefield and try their best to persuade others to drink more, thinking that it is unrealistic to drink enough. "Talk about heroes with wine" is ok for people who drink a lot, but it is difficult for people who drink less. Sometimes, excessive persuasion will completely destroy the feelings of the original friends.
5. Toast in an orderly way, with clear priorities.
Baking bread is also a science. Generally speaking, a toast should be made in the order of age, position and the status of the guest and the host. Before toasting, we must fully consider the order of toasting and distinguish between primary and secondary. In order to drink with people you don't know, you should first find out your identity, or pay attention to what others call you, so as not to be embarrassed or hurt your feelings.
When toasting, you must grasp the order of toasting. If you want to have a guest at the dinner table, you should be respectful to him, but you should pay attention to the fact that if someone with higher status or older people is present, you should not only be respectful to those who can help you, but also propose a toast to the respected elders first, otherwise everyone will be embarrassed.
6. Read words and understand people's hearts.
If you want to get everyone's appreciation on the wine table, you must learn to read and read. Because when dealing with people, we must understand people's hearts, so that we can play a good role on the wine table.
7, the edge is gradually exposed, sit firmly on Mount Tai.
At the banquet, you should see the occasion clearly, correctly evaluate your own strength, don't be too impulsive, try to keep some alcohol and talk, don't let others underestimate yourself and don't show yourself too much, choose the right time and gradually radiate your own edge, so as to sit firmly on Mount Tai and not give others the idea of "this ability", so that everyone can't underestimate your strength.
Toast has a lot of knowledge. When a subordinate toasts a superior leader, he must stand respectfully, with a smile and a glass in his hand. The height of the glass cannot exceed the height of the leader. When drinking, lean slightly and say, please lead! If the leader doesn't raise his glass, you must never drink it first, and you can't drink it until the leader drinks it.
Toast the leader. If the leader is nice to you, say thank you. If the leader is unfamiliar, just say "whatever". This shows that it is a step for leaders and a respect for them.
Everyone is drinking beer. Then you sit down. You poured yourself a coke, which is called low configuration.
You poured yourself a glass of beer, which is called standard configuration.
You poured yourself a cup of tea, the same color as beer. It's called Trojan Horse.
You poured yourself a coke and added a few drops of vinegar, which was not only the same color as beer, but also bubbled and didn't steam. This is called super Trojan horse.
Your colleague poured you a glass of white wine, which is called recommended configuration.
Everyone is here, and the party has begun. Have a drink by yourself first. This is called unit testing.
You tell the people next to you, man, let's make ourselves at home. This is called a communication test.
But he said no, this cup is going to dry. This is called a stress test. So you said, let's come together. This is called internal testing.
At this time, boss raised his glass to the audience. This is called public testing.
After three rounds, you won't be polite to them. You propose a toast to the opposite person, which is called p2p.
You propose a toast to the opposite person, he pays you back, and then you respect him ... this is called tcp.
You propose a toast to the table one by one. This is called a token ring. You said you'd drink this as long as you were brothers. It's called broadcasting.
But your boss jj is not happy, only brother, three glasses of wine. This is called a bomb.
But your subordinate mm is unhappy. I'll have a drink, and so will you. This is called a malicious attack.
A man came to propose a toast to this table, and you refused. You passed me first. This is called ISA2004.
Your little brothers come to propose a toast to you. It's called one-to-many
You are the boss, and everyone will propose a toast to you. This is the so-called server.
When the drinker rises to make a toast, the advised person will say, "Wait until your ass is up." At this time, the drinker should respond, "Move your ass to show respect."
Lady's suggestion: Excited heart, shaking hands, I offered a toast to the leader, but the leader didn't think I was ugly.
The lady clinks glasses with the leader: the leader is above me and below me. Please say it several times.
A rotten hole in the stomach is better than a broken feeling.
Men don't drink, and they walk in the world for nothing; As long as you have it in your heart, tea is also wine.
The east wind blows, the drums thunder, and whoever is afraid of drinking today!
Half a catty of improper wine, a catty of wall support, and a catty of half a wall, I won't go.
There are already thousands of glasses of wine. Drink as much as you can. Run if you can't.
The guest gets drunk, or the host will feel ashamed.
The host raised his glass to the audience and said, "Women should open their mouths and men should go in."
Little happiness, touch along the wall; Have fun and mop the floor.
How can a person walk the rivers and lakes without drinking? Can't drink, no future. Drink nine doses at a time and focus on training; Drink only drinks, and the leaders don't drink; Can drink and not lose, leading the secretary; If you drink it, you will fall, and your official position will be difficult to protect; Drinking too little for a long time makes it difficult to find talents; Halfway through, the promotion is still early; Lead the whole process and lead the future!
It was noon on the day of weeding, sweat dripped down the soil and three glasses of wine dried up. Do you feel bitter?
In the spring morning, I woke up easily, birds were singing around, and I raised my glass and asked the young lady, how much should I drink? -Miss, it's up to you.
When young people leave home, old people will come back. I will invite this young lady to have a drink with me. -Have a drink with the ladies present.
When I came, my wife told me to drink less and eat more.
Wine makes a hero, not your wife! ! !
Make it at sunrise, and I wish you more prosperous business. Please buy a drink for those who do business.
It's nearly as bad as saying goodbye to Caiyun in Bai Di. -Be a good drinker and have a drink.
Show your skills in times of crisis, and my sister will give my brother a drink.
The big river has wide waves. Let's do it with this cup. -Have a drink for yourself.
The east wind blows and the drums beat. Who's afraid of drinking today?
Qian Shan is always in love. Can we drink less?
To make the guests drink well, drink well first!
Commodity economy is in great circulation, opening up and invigorating two cups.
Every confidant has a thousand glasses of wine, which is true.
The sky is blue, the sea is blue, and cups are handed down.
There is no cloud in the sky and no drought in the ground. That cup doesn't count.
Dried wine is big, and the sun and the moon grow in the pot.
If you don't drink white, you won't come emotionally
Is the feeling iron or not? Iron! Then you are not afraid of stomach bleeding! Is the feeling deep or not? Deep! Then you are not afraid of intravenous drip!
Those who can have a drink or two are generous enough! Drink five taels if you can, so that the gay party can cultivate itself! I will drink half a catty and one catty, so my buddy is the most considerate! Those who can drink a catty and a barrel will be promoted to vice president later! Drink a jar if you can drink a barrel, and the director of the winery will let you be it!
Drinking revolutionary wine every day causes red eyes and stomach damage, weak hands and feet, and greatly reduces memory. Drinking people's envy, drinking units lack funds; I drank my wife to tears and slept back to back at night. When I sued the Commission for Discipline Inspection, the secretary waved his hand: It's not right to drink or not, and we are drunk every day; My wife reported to the Standing Committee of the National People's Congress, and the director of the National People's Congress said: This expenditure has long been within the budget; My wife sued the Women's Federation, and the director of women said: My family is drunk every day. My wife sued the joint meeting of the municipal party Committee, and the secretary of the municipal party Committee said: We will hold a memorial service for him when he is drunk.
I hope this will help you understand what women do in business.
The etiquette of toasting is to address each other first and exchange toasts. If the distance exceeds the distance between two arms, you should stand up first. Raise your glasses with both hands to show respect.
A toast revolves around the other party, which is generally the purpose of the banquet. There is also waiting for him to listen around his characteristics.
If it doesn't work out, it's easy. Businessmen wish him prosperous business, old people wish him younger and younger, young people wish him a bright future, and girls wish her a longer and better life. It is very important for people to be smart and learn. If you can see, listen, watch what others say and learn. Humorous toast will achieve unexpected results. 、
When someone advises you to drink, you can say, "How can I get you to propose a toast to me? I should propose a toast to you. " Then stand up and raise a glass and say a toast to all of them, so that they will be embarrassed to persuade you one by one and drink a lot less. It is also very useful to answer the phone in the toilet. I was afraid of drinking too much before. Seeing that something was wrong, I secretly set an alarm clock on my mobile phone. A few minutes later, the alarm clock rang. I said I would answer the phone and go out for a long time. I apologized recently and made a casual remark. It's simple.
In fact, flexibility is the most important thing. Be flexible and skilled.
Even if girls can drink, they should not drink too much. Half a catty should convince everyone that you can only drink more than three ounces.
You can't drink, but under the persuasion of everyone, you sip your glass. This kind of girl is what everyone appreciates and likes. Protect yourself without losing your charm, take care of each other's face and let the boss appreciate it.
This is what you should learn.
When the drinker rises to propose a toast, the person advised to drink will say, "It's time to start again", which means that the drinker has another drink.
At this time, the drinker should respond: "Move your ass to show respect."
Men cannot make good friends without drinking. Deep feelings, shallow feelings. Lady's suggestion: Excited heart, shaking hands, I offered a toast to the leader, but the leader didn't think I was ugly. The lady clinks glasses with the leader: the leader is above me and below me. Please say it several times. Two little bees fly to the flowers. . . . A rotten hole in the stomach is better than a broken feeling.
Deep feelings, a stuffy; Shallow feelings, lick it; Feelings are thick and you don't drink enough; Feeling thin, can't drink; Emotional iron, drinking blood. One, two, two, two mouthwashes, three, two, four, two are not wine, and five, two, six, two, two, two, two, seven, two, eight, two are still shouting. Men don't drink and live in the world for nothing. As long as they have it in their hearts, tea is also wine, and wine is the essence of food. The more they drink, the younger they are. The east wind is blowing and the drums are ringing. Who is afraid of drinking today? Wine and meat pass through the intestines, but friends stay in their hearts!
People are floating in rivers and lakes, how can they not be stabbed to death ~ ~ ~ A few times ~ ~ Liang Shanbo Zhu Yingtai can't give birth to a son ~ ~ ~ When will he come back ~ ~ ~
Men live like dogs who don't drink, like eunuchs who don't smoke, women who live in the world don't wear makeup, and men who live in the world don't smoke. Half a catty of improper wine, a catty of wall support, and a catty of half a wall, I won't go. There are already thousands of glasses of wine. Drink as much as you can. Run if you can't.
Revolutionary wine is drunk every day, and .............. stands on his legs. Drinking doesn't count. Small wine that is willing to contribute to the gastrointestinal revolution for the revolution, drinking every day, red eyes, bad stomach.
My feet are soft after drinking, and my memory is greatly reduced. Drinking people's envy, drinking units lack funds; I drank my wife to tears, slept back to back at night, and sued the Commission for Discipline Inspection. The secretary listened to a wave of his hand-it's not right to drink or not. We are drunk every day! Hot wine to wash teeth, beer is tea, six sixes! Hello, brother! Who's afraid of who? Turtles are afraid of hammers! The guest gets drunk, or the host will feel ashamed.
I drink revolutionary wine every day and go home back to back with my wife. My wife reports to the Commission for Discipline Inspection, and the secretary of the Commission for Discipline Inspection says: It's not right to drink or not; My wife reported to the Standing Committee of the National People's Congress, and the director of the National People's Congress said: This expenditure has long been within the budget; My wife sued the Women's Federation, and the director of women said: My family is also drunk every day; My wife told the joint meeting of the municipal party Committee, and the secretary of the municipal party Committee said: We will hold a memorial service for him when he is drunk.
Little happiness, touch along the wall; Have fun and mop the floor. People can't walk out of the rivers and lakes without drinking, and there is no future. If you drink nine drinks at a time, you should focus on cultivating only drinks. Leaders should not lose, and the leading secretary will fall down as soon as he drinks it. Jobs are hard to secure, drinking too little, and talents are hard to find and run away. It's still early for promotion, and leaders will lead the way in the future.
We are all bosom friends together, so I'll have two glasses of hangover first. If you don't drink, who will? -Do you think it's hard for people who fight alcohol lawsuits to drink a cup of weeding and sweat, and even dry three cups of wine? In the spring morning, I woke up easily, birds were singing around, and I raised my glass and asked the young lady, how much should I drink? It's up to the young lady to leave home. I'll ask the young lady to accompany me. -Have a drink with the ladies present. Follow your heart. I will drink this time. -I can't help it. When I came, my wife told me to drink less and eat more vegetables. Wine makes the hero brave, refuses to obey his wife's control, is afraid of losing his sadness, and refrains from drinking. Small quantity is not a gentleman, non-toxic and not competitive in the market economy. Have a drink quickly. Make it at sunrise, and I wish you more prosperous business. -Buy a drink to a businessman.
Make new friends and don't forget old ones. -A toast to old and new friends * * * and farewell to Bai Di Caiyun. -Be a good drinker. Have a drink in a crisis, and your sister (brother) will give your brother a drink. The big river has wide waves. Let's do it with this cup. -have a drink by yourself, the east wind blows and the drums beat. Who's afraid of drinking today? Qian Shan is always in love. Can we drink less? To make the guests drink well, drink well first! Commodity economy is in great circulation, opening up and invigorating two cups.
If you don't know, unless you raise your glass, the sky is blue, the sea is blue, and one cup after another reaches the sky without clouds and the ground is dry. Just now, that cup was not for friends, and poetry poured into the East China Sea. When will you drink again? If you don't drink now, you will be sad later.
Is the feeling iron or not? Iron! Then you are not afraid of stomach bleeding! Is the feeling deep or not? Deep! Then you are not afraid of intravenous drip! Those who can have a drink or two are generous enough! Drink five taels if you can, so that the gay party can cultivate itself! I will drink half a catty and one catty, so my buddy is the most considerate! Those who can drink a catty and a barrel will be promoted to vice president later! Drink a jar if you can drink a barrel, and the director of the winery will let you be it!
When you are away from home, your wife tells you to drink less and eat more. If you can't reach it, stand up. If you lose, don't drink. If you win, that's it. If we can't finish eating, we'll come back.
The communication place on the wine table is quite challenging. You can't drink, so you'd better learn to refuse to drink. Drinking can't make friends and relatives happy, so a golden tongue makes everyone happy. This will not harm the body, nor will it spoil the fun of drinkers. Here are some "refusal words". what do you think?
First, as long as you have a good relationship, drink as much as you can.
You can expand and say, "9999 roses can't have sex." Only when the feelings are not enough, use roses to make up for it. Therefore, as long as the feelings are good, drink as much as you can. I don't want our feelings mixed with so much water. Although I drank a little, it was a drop of affection. Every bit is love! "
Second, as long as the feelings are in place, you will be intoxicated if you don't drink.
Try to say: "drinking with people you don't like is a kind of pain;" Drinking with the person you like is a touch. Coming together shows that the feelings are in place and you are intoxicated without drinking. "
Third, as long as there is affection, everything you drink is wine.
If you really can't touch alcohol, alcohol may wish to persuade the other party to replace alcohol with drinks or tea. You ask him, "Do we have feelings?" He will answer "Yes!" You said, "As long as you have feelings, everything you drink is wine. What is feeling? Feelings are understandable. Long live understanding! " Then you use tea instead of wine to express it.
Fourth, the feelings are shallow, even if you drink a big bowl; Feelings are deep, even if you lick them.
On the wine table, a thousand words boil down to one word "drink". For example, "If you don't drink this glass of wine, you must think I'm ugly." Such as: "affectionate, swallow it in one gulp; Shallow feelings, take a look. " Drinkers associate the amount of drinking with the beauty, ugliness and feelings of drinking. You can refute their connection: "If the depth of feelings is directly proportional to the amount of drinking, a glass of wine is not enough to reflect our deep feelings. We should jump into the jar together, because we have known each other for many years and have deep feelings like the sea. In fact, the feelings are shallow, even if you drink a big bowl; Deep feelings, even if you are embarrassed. "
Five, in order not to hurt feelings, I drink; I want to drink a little so as not to harm my health.
He advises you: "Drink! Emotional iron, drink blood! It is better to hurt the body than to hurt the feelings; I'd rather have a hole in my stomach than let my feelings break! " This is irrational. You can answer this question: "We should consume rationally and drink rationally. Stay half awake and half drunk, at least in your dreams. I am a person who doesn't want to be hurt physically and emotionally. Without your body, you can't express your feelings; Without feelings, you are a walking corpse! In order not to hurt my feelings, I drink; In order not to harm my health, I drink a little. "
6. At this happy moment, let's do multiple-choice questions!
Let's open our minds a little, and the way to refuse to drink will come. He wants to express his feelings and feelings for you through wine. You say, "The happy moment can be a multiple-choice question. To express feelings and intentions, you can: a. hug, b. hold hands, c. drink, choose one. I respect you and let you choose; If you respect me, you should let me choose. Now, I choose A. Hug, ok? "
Seven, the gentleman's words don't begin.
He wants you to make a toast. You can set a "two difficulties, please enter the urn." You ask him, "Would you like to be a gentleman or a villain? Please answer this question first. If he says "I'm willing to be a gentleman", you can say that "a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water", replace wine with tea, or "a gentleman talks, you drink" and invite him to drink; If he says "I want to be a villain", you say "I don't drink with villains" and then sit down with a smile. He had no choice.
In short, there are still many ways to refuse to drink, so we should improvise. "Soldiers will block." In the wine culture, there are both words to persuade and words to refuse to drink. You don't have a capacity for alcohol, and you can cope with it in the communication field with your wit and eloquence.
How to deal with villains:
Is the villain difficult to deal with? Mainly to let everyone know that the villain is the villain. Is to expand the opposite of villains, expand the United front, and strengthen communication with superiors.
When you suffer, don't react too violently. When you meet the right opportunity, show the boss the actual and objective situation. Many times there is no need to distinguish, as long as it will not cause you actual harm.
The villain is the easiest to deal with, and the real strong person at work is a colleague with strong ability and broad mind. As a villain, I am already very sad, so please forgive her.
Rules on the wine table: rules on the table! First, if you can't drink it yourself, don't take the first bite and eat it with your rice bowl.
Second, if you are sure to drink it, don't put ink on it, and then there are rules.
Rule one, although "deep feelings, a stuffy; Love is shallow, lick it. " But don't say it while drinking.
Rule 2: broadcast thick sets in a low-key manner, and never fill them as soon as they are served on the wine table.
Rule three, leaders will drink with each other before it's their turn to respect each other.
Rule four, you can be respected by many people. Never be respected by many people unless you are a leader.
Rule five, respect others by yourself. If you don't clink glasses, how much you drink depends on the situation. For example, the drinking capacity and attitude of the other party must not be less than that of the other party. You should know that you respect others.
Rule six, respect others by yourself. If you clink glasses, by the way, if I drink them, you will get pregnant.
Rule 7: Since you are in a humble position, remember to add more wine to the leader. Don't blindly drink for the leader, that is, you have to do it. You have to pretend that you want to drink because you really want to drink, not for the leader. For example, leader A can't drink enough. Beating around the bush can stop people who want to worship leader A.
Rule 8: Pick up the glass (beer glass), grab the glass with your right hand and put it on the bottom with your left hand. Remember that your cup is always lower than others'. If you are a leader, you should be sensible and don't put it too low, otherwise how can you be a person below.
Rule nine, if there is no special person present, it is best to touch the wine in chronological order, and don't favor one over the other.
Rule 10: clink glasses, make a toast and make a statement. Otherwise, why the fuck should I drink your wine?
Rule 1 1: Don't talk business at the dinner table. After drinking, the business will be almost the same, and everyone knows it, otherwise people will not be free to drink with you.
Rule 12, don't pretend to be crooked, say the wrong thing, do the wrong thing, don't plead, and consciously punish the wine.
Rule 13: If, purely if, there is not enough wine, put the wine bottle in the middle of the table and let others add it themselves. Don't pour the wine one by one, or what if the people behind you run out of wine?
Rule 14: There must be a glass of wine at the end, so don't leave your glass empty. You can't run away ~
Article 15: Don't make a slip of the tongue after drinking, don't talk big, don't lose your manners, don't spit everywhere, don't throw chopsticks, don't point indiscriminately, don't drink soup, don't fart and burp, don't go to the toilet while holding your breath, and no one will stop you.
Rule 16, don't say "I can't drink" (if you drink), lest others accuse you of hypocrisy. Believe it or not, people can really tell if they can drink.
Rule 17, the leader drinks with you to give you face. No matter how much the leader tells you to drink, do it yourself first. Remember, put your hands and glasses down.
Rule 18, peanuts are a good thing for drinkers. It is essential to keep a clear head and ask questions after drinking. A cup of yogurt, a cup of hot water and a hot towel all show your concern.
About toasting:
1, the host respects the guest. 2. Accompany guests and respect them. 3. Host and guest thank each other. 4. Accompany guests and respect each other.
Remember, guests must not make a toast in disorder, which is very impolite and disrespectful to the host.
Nine tips for not drinking.
1, do not take the initiative to attack, and implement the strategy of defending as the attack;
2. Put two big cups in front of the table, one with white wine and the other with mineral water, drink small glasses and drink water frequently. When the host and guest on the wine table are basically drunk for 8 minutes, they can take the initiative to attack and replace the wine with water; (This article is not recommended)
3. After toasting, don't swallow it immediately, find an opportunity to wipe your mouth with a napkin and spit out the wine in the napkin; (for women)
4. Eat some fat and starch foods at the bottom first, and it is not easy to get drunk when drinking;
5, master the rhythm, don't drink too much at once;
6, don't mix several kinds of wine, especially easy to get drunk;
7. When serving dishes, don't turn dishes in the middle of the wine table. Leading food on the wine table is a no-no.
8. When you are six minutes drunk, drink the vinegar in the vinegar dish in front of you and ask the waiter to add it. ...
9. Fill it up every time you make a toast, then pretend that you didn't hold the small glass well before drinking, and try to sprinkle some, so that you can drink less every time.
Precautions for toasting
Toast is also a toast, which means that at a formal banquet, the host proposes to the guests and puts forward certain reasons for drinking. When drinking, we usually say some wishes and blessings, and even the host and guests have to make a special toast. The shorter the toast, the better.
You can toast at any time when you drink. If it is a formal toast, it should be at a specific time, which will not affect the guests' meal. Toast is suitable to start after guests and hosts are seated and before meals. It can also be after the main course and before the dessert is served.
When drinking, especially when toasting, someone needs to take the lead in toasting, which can be the host, the guest of honor or the people present. When toasting, you should stand up, hold the cup in your right hand, or hold the bottom of the cup in your left hand, smile, look at other toasts, especially yourself, and say a blessing at the same time.
It is suggested that after the toast, you should stand up with a glass in your hand. Even if you don't drink, you should pick up the cup for show. Raise the glass to eye level, say "cheers" and drink it off or in moderation. Then, you have to look at the proposer with a glass, and the process is over.
In Chinese food, before toasting, you can symbolically touch each other's glasses; When clinking glasses, you should make your glass lower than the other's to show your respect for the other. Touching the table with the bottom of the glass can also mean touching the glass with the other side. You can do this when you are far away from each other. If the host toasts himself, ask for a toast to the host and toast with him again.
In general, toasting should be carried out in the order of age, position and the identity of the guest and the host. Be sure to give full consideration to the order of toasting and prioritize. Even if you are drinking with people you don't know, you should first inquire about your identity or pay attention to other people's names to avoid embarrassment or hurting feelings. Even if you want something from the guest at the dinner table, you should show him more respect. However, if there are people with higher status or elders present, we should also propose a toast to the elders first, otherwise it will make everyone very embarrassed.
If it is not suitable for drinking because of living habits or health reasons, you can also entrust relatives, friends, subordinates and younger generations to drink or use drinks and tea instead. As a toaster, you should fully understand each other. When the other party asks others to change the wine or drink, don't insist on letting the other party drink, and don't "get to the bottom of it" curiously. You know, if someone doesn't take the initiative to explain the reason, it means that the other party thinks this is his privacy.
In western food, champagne is the only toast, and you can't drink it with others over the people around you.