A 40-year-old woman dreamed that her cousin asked me if I had borrowed any money.

First of all, 40-year-old women dream that their cousin wants money, which may indicate that the dreamer is asking too much of himself or is too nervous in reality. But as a manifestation of dreams, it is only a hint, so we don't have to pay too much attention to it. Secondly, whether my cousin gives money may be just a dream story, and there is no need to investigate right or wrong. Generally speaking, you should have principles when you do things. If you ask your cousin for help, I suggest you make your own efforts after determining the way to help each other. After all, life is our own, and emotional dependence should be based on mutual trust and understanding.