But I never think that time will erase everything, just dilute it. Once there is an incentive, anger will still be vented in some way.
In the dream, you are the violent side, arson, strangulation, that is, the violent side. According to a survey in the United States, arsonists are usually rapists. Even if they suffocate, strangulation is the most painful, because breathing is not rational but inertia, and forced suffocation is the most painful way to die.
I think the most important thing is your feelings. Is it pleasure or fear when you wake up? If it is fear, it means that you do have anger, and you don't know that you are so angry. You put up with what you can't stand, so anger erupts in your dreams, but if it's pleasure, ...