Was it solved by the Duke of Zhou?
Unfortunately, I haven't learned it yet,
But I'm just here to talk about my understanding of this dream.
In fact, this dream is related to psychology.
I believe you've had similar dreams before,
Tell your lover this dream,
And took the opportunity to quarrel with him about it. (The subconscious is here)
Right?
If so, this means:
You suspect that he is not good to me,
Your relationship is unstable,
No future,
You are dissatisfied with him.
Right?
If so,
So normal people,
Break up after falling in love,
Is a difficult thing,
Because it will hurt each other.
No matter how dissatisfied the other party makes himself,
But after all, I'm in love.
So,
It pains me to think of breaking up.
however
Many people,
Even if I want to break up,
But they don't want to hurt each other,
So I hope the other party will take the initiative to break up.
This will cause less damage.
These people who are waiting for each other to break up,
The inner sense of security is relatively high,
Although they don't want to get hurt themselves,
But instead of hurting others,
They'd rather get hurt.
You belong to this kind of person.
Your dream,
That's what she meant:
You go to a third party,
You love other girls,
So I can leave without feeling guilty.
Freud said,
Dreams are the fulfillment of wishes.
Boyfriend has a third party,
This is exactly what you want to hide in the shallow layer of your subconscious.
When this wish comes true,
You can kill two birds with one stone:
Break up properly,
Without any guilt.
In addition,
There will be a sense of moral superiority.
This is a very subtle psychology.
The man in bed chats with you,
To prove that even if there are other men in your bed,
This is not one person's,
(Not alone)
Dressed,
It means you are aboveboard.
Because of a relationship,
No matter how bad the situation is,
But decided to end it and bring it up,
It is not easy.
Because,
The person who broke up,
Obviously, it should bear greater responsibility.
It is easier to be reprimanded as an "emotional executioner."
It's kind of the perpetrator who hurt this relationship.
We don't want to do this,
Do not want to be scolded by outsiders,
Don't want to leave an excuse for blaming each other,
And I don't want to feel guilty about it.
As a result, many couples spend like this.
So this dream reflects your subconscious,
When we understand our subconscious,
Can better face the reality.