Your digging is to dig out your inner entanglements and contradictions, but you don't have much courage to face them yourself. You need other people's help.
In addition, in terms of the popularity of the opposite sex, you may encounter the psychology that makes you want to enter this world, but you are on guard and you ask your relatives for help. This shows that you are not very opinionated about people and things, but you know that it is good for us to take the initiative to seek help, but it would be more perfect if we could take the initiative to seek answers.