Composite skills after cold and violent breakup

1, learn to stay calm and not panic when there is cold violence in feelings, and learn to face up to all kinds of problems caused by cold violence in feelings. Many times, when we encounter cold violence in our feelings, we will suddenly lose our opinions and sense of proportion. But the more at this time, the more we should learn to remain calm and have a correct attitude. If you find that your partner is prone to cold violence, remember not to make a scene at any time, which will only be counterproductive. First of all, you must keep calm, so that you can have a stable mood to analyze the contradiction between you. 2. Keep a positive attitude. What should I do if I want to get back together after a cold and violent breakup? Give yourself more confidence, maybe he still likes you. Therefore, whether it is the phone or WeChat, we must always maintain a positive attitude towards him. So there is no time to argue about the pain of your breakup. If the atmosphere between you two becomes awkward, find an excuse to leave quickly. The longer you wait, the more unprofitable you are. Although you have a chance to re-establish contact with him now, you have more things to do. 3, cultivate new interests Many women are in love, and one heart only hangs on their man's neck. When this man begins to be cold and violent to you, your heart will immediately fall off the cliff. A person living is not afraid of having no money, not having enough to eat and not wearing warm clothes, and he is afraid that you will gradually become a half-dead living dead without spiritual sustenance. In fact, women can try to cultivate some new interests to divert their attention after suffering cold violence in their feelings. This will relieve you of the pain of emotional cold violence and won't be uncomfortable all the time. You have a new goal to devote yourself to. Cold violence after breaking up, compound skill 2 1. Learn to stay calm. When there is cold violence in marriage, especially don't panic. Learn to face up to the cold violence and various problems in marriage. Many times, when people encounter cold violence in marriage, they will suddenly lose their opinions and proper limit. At this time, we should learn to keep calm and have the right attitude. If you find that your spouse is beginning to show cold violence, don't make a scene at any time, which will be counterproductive. You must keep calm, so that you can have enough mood to analyze the contradiction between you. 2. Can a positive attitude and cold violence be reconciled? Give yourself a little confidence, because maybe he likes you very much. He said, no matter what you call, you should keep a positive attitude. There is no time to discuss the pain of your breakup. If you two are embarrassed, find an excuse to leave. The longer you spend with him, the more you hurt. Although you have a chance to get back together with him now, you have a lot of things to do. Cold violence after breaking up, compound skills When a woman gets married, a heart hangs around a man's neck. But when this man is cold and violent to you, your heart immediately falls into a cliff. People are not afraid to live without money and food and clothing, and they are afraid that your spirit will not be pinned and become a living dead. In fact, women can try to cultivate new interests and divert their attention after cold violence at home. In this way, perhaps the pain of family cold violence will be less and the happiness will be more. 4. Let the other person see that his change is first of all his appearance, cut his long hair for many years or change his dressing style, and even try to make up, so that his eyes will light up after a long time. More importantly, your temperament talk should be closer to his favorite type. Even if the appearance becomes more beautiful, if the inside is still his unbearable personality, there is no hope of getting back together. Composite skills after cold violent breakup 3 What is a cold violent breakup? Couples begin to become cold in their communication, stop calling you from time to time or spend less time together as before, until the relationship becomes too cold and they break up silently; Cold violence may be cruel, but sometimes it hurts the other person the least. White lies can be painful, depressing and annoying when facing people, but they will eventually get out of this mystery. The original love words will naturally become less after getting along for a long time. There is a seven-year itch between husband and wife, not to mention the young people in Love Seeds. Men sometimes feel embarrassed to break up with you because they are blaming themselves or you are kind to her, so they will solve it through a cold attitude and hope you break up. If you want to break up with cold violence and successfully save his heart or get back together, you can start here: # Understand that the other person has been hurt and try to communicate with him. If he can tell you why he is cold and violent, it means that he still wants to get back together with you or continue to associate with you. # If he is already in the stage of cold violence and has gradually lost contact, he can communicate in other ways to resolve the deadlock of cold violence as soon as possible. Therefore, at this time, as long as you don't speak (the characteristics of cold violence), you should be vigilant, and then express your apologies in other ways to resolve the deadlock; # At the beginning of cold violence, talk about things that are not sensitive to both sides, such as current events or gossip. When the time is right, he won't be so cold and can start talking. # Express your feelings when you speak and open your mouth, but don't use an accusatory attitude. Never say what you are so hateful and have the heart to treat me. When communicating with a cold and violent man, you should create a comfortable communication environment for him, so that he will want to communicate with you. Therefore, when encountering cold violence from men, don't fight violence with violence. Otherwise, the two will not only have no sparks, but will fight, and the situation that can be recovered will immediately become a breakup, and there may be no possibility of getting back together. Once cold violence occurs, we should seek ways in time, instead of waiting until it is really irreparable to save our boyfriend. Because cold violence is usually a sign of a person's immaturity or emotional disorder, only correct and active psychotherapy can help him learn to manage his own behavior and emotions. Or you can try the help of a professional emotional counselor, which can always achieve remarkable results. Because everyone has different degrees and ways of cold violence, if you really want to know how to do it, you can register as a member of our dream love network first, and our professional team will arrange one-on-one guidance and communication with you to help you get back together successfully and resolve the contradiction of cold violence.