Psychological dream interpretation: the temptation of animus

Hostility will tempt women away from real men. He is like a cocoon woven by illusory thoughts, which is full of wishes and judgments about what things should be, separating women from the reality of life.

Carl Gustav Jung

Analysis of a dream in July 2007 14+2065438

First, the dream of ice ice:

1. Yesterday I dreamed that there was a song named after me on the radio. Mainly irony. Said I fell asleep climbing on the birthday cake on my birthday. Call me stupid or something. This song is very interesting. That's interesting. I am very happy. Later, I learned that it was written by a boy who came to celebrate my birthday. But I don't know him. Let him introduce himself. Then I went out with him.

At first, I thought the song was sung by a girl and joked that a girl had a crush on me. Later, after some investigation, I realized that it was written and sung by a boy. I think he knows me well.

2. The songs also praise me. There is a lyric that says "a burning heart, a burning heart, a burning body"

There is also a song whose tune is that lonely people sing sad songs. I am not familiar with this song. It took me a long time to find this song in the morning.

4. There is also the part about family. I dreamed that my grandmother washed all my clothes. Recommend my mother to wear one of my fatter clothes. I'm worried that she will be unsociable. Later, I looked at the clothes and thought they were really loose. Maybe I could wear them. Besides, the boy said that my mother couldn't leave work early on my birthday. And my aunt said that he was busy playing mahjong with the guests on my birthday.

Second, the interpretation of the dream:

1. Male intention: a part of the male personality of women and dream lovers. Whether there is a lover or not in reality may appear.

He is a part of your own personality, so he knows you best and attracts you most. Animus will make you intoxicated. Use him well, you can know yourself better and stimulate more potential; Instead, you will be tempted by him and affect your real life. Of course, he is your idealized lover. If there are similar people in reality, you will fall in love at first sight and be tempted.

The boy who appeared in Bing Bing's dream felt sarcastic at first, then surprised (playing a song of naming names), flirting (calling her stupid and teasing her), getting to know her (knowing her quite well) and praising (burning). You can see that this character is similar to animus's composition.

2. Lack of birthday:

Zhong Yi: You have a recurring "birthday" in your dream. The birthday in your dream is very surprising, including different people's attitudes towards birthdays. I don't know if it was your recent birthday, but I'm sure it was a sad birthday.

In the dream, you should explain and comfort yourself by telling others (boys and aunts) that the important person's birthday is not here. And compensation and comfort. On your dream birthday, your prince (animus) appeared.

In reality, is there anything that you regret, and is there anyone important who is not present?

Bing Bing: July 3rd, just after. My husband went on a business trip on my birthday, and I lived alone.

The other man was not in, so I contacted him yesterday. (For privacy protection, it is omitted here. )

Zhong Yi: From the dream, animus understands you and suits you; On the contrary, your husband makes you empty, so the theme of this song is loneliness (3). In fact, it can be said that both of them make you more confused.

Bingbing: Well, my husband is a very pragmatic person and doesn't have much spiritual pursuit. But it's good for me. My age requires me to be pragmatic. But I'm like a little boy. Therefore, there will be contradictions between spiritual needs and practical needs.

Summary: From here, we can see the comforting effect of dreams. What can't be done in reality comes in dreams, just as Fred said: dreams are the realization of desires.

3. Worried about figure and charm.

The burning song (2) added a little fire to Bingbing's dream. But there is also a family part in this dream. My grandmother washes all my clothes (what a good grandmother), and my mother needs to be loose, which corresponds to the word figure in the song, showing a kind of worry about obesity (not so obvious).

Body, clothes and unified elements are all charm, and women are all pleasing themselves. How can a woman at this time not care about her charm?

Summary: Dreams will exaggerate some factors, which will make the thoughts you are worried about in reality appear more exaggerated in dreams, and even remind you repeatedly.

Third, the postscript

For some reason, the record of this dream interpretation process is not very clear.

But it can be seen from this dream that the existence of animus has brought women to the perceptual level to a great extent.

In Susu's animus by the Sea, the meaning of animus is analyzed in a simple way with the metaphor of the movie He is a Dragon.

However, we have to think deeply that although arman is more in line with women's dreams of rational lovers (warrior, prince, animus).

However, returning to rationality and reality, Milla's fiance and Igor were the good companions of most women in the accident.

It is often said that you meet the right person at the right time, but things change. Maybe the right person is more important than the right person.