Recently, I heard a sentence from teacher Da Shen Lin.
"I want to be a leaf in your arms. It's up to you whether it grows or falls."
This passage was also seen in a tweet. I felt very good and recorded it:
"Really, I don't want to wish you a warm winter, a cold spring, a lamp in the dark, an umbrella in the rain ... I don't think it makes sense.
I just want to spend three winters and early spring with you, lighting a lamp for you in the dark and holding up an umbrella for you in the rain.
I will care about many things, but I will forgive everything. Sometimes my eyes are raining, but my heart has been holding an umbrella for you. "
1. When the wind blows and the rain crows, you are a gentleman. Don't worry? The wind blew through the rain, and there was a cock crow outside the window. Why not be embarrassed when you meet a gentleman? The wind and rain darkened the sky and the cock crowed outside the window. Didn't Hu Yun like seeing a gentleman? -"The Book of Songs, National Style and Storm"
2. If one day, we kneel in front of the Buddha statue, I will say to the Bodhisattva, "The woman kneeling in front of you with me is the one I love. We love each other, but we can't die like the rest of the world. Today, I worship before you, which means we have a wedding ceremony. From now on, in my heart, she is my wife. No matter what happens, I only treat her well and love her, and try my best to understand her and fulfill her. Her joy and sadness are the reasons in my heart. " -"The Past of Shanghai"
3. Zhang Ailing describes the dual realm of wife and lover:
"Maybe every man has had such two women, at least two. Married a red rose, over time, the red one turned into a touch of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one was still "the bright line at the foot of my bed"; When I marry a white rose, the white one is the rice stick on my clothes, and the red one is the Zhu Shazhi in my heart. "
If you had known me before, you would forgive me now.
I want you to know that no matter when and where, there is always someone waiting for you in this world. Anyway, you know, there is always such a person.
Seeing him, she became very, very low, as low as dust. But her heart is happy, and flowers come out of the dust.
Because I have loved, I am kind; Because you know, you are tolerant.
4. The answer is long. I'm going to answer it all my life. Are you ready to listen?
You are the flower on the tree, and the swallows are whispering among the beams. You are love, warmth and hope, and you are April day on earth.
I would rather turn into a fallen leaf and let the wind and rain fall; Or a cloud, in a clear blue sky, has nothing to do with the earth.
You have given me an unbearable weight in my life, and I will repay you with my whole life.
Now even the yellow leaves of autumn clouds have been thrown into the distance, leaving only the gray sky completely lonely. Can you stand listening to the cold wind alone?
-Lin
5. A person has at least one dream and one strong reason. If the heart has no place to live, it wanders everywhere.
If what you give me is the same as what you give to others, then I don't want it.
I don't have time to be seriously young. When I understand, I can only choose to be seriously old.
Every time I miss you, a grain of sand falls from the sky, and the Sahara has been formed since then. Every time I miss you, a drop of water falls from the sky, thus forming the Pacific Ocean.
Perhaps, we will one day: hold someone's hand and forget him.
The beauty of time lies in its inevitable passage. Flowers in spring, moon in autumn, snow in summer and winter.
When I smile, my face looks like spring flowers, which will definitely make people move, no matter who he is.
We left so suddenly that we didn't have time to say goodbye. This is good, because we will never say goodbye.
-San Mao
6. "I give you my whole soul, together with its quirks, playing with a small temper, flickering, and 1,800 bad habits. Really annoying, only one thing is good. I love you.
I tell you, when I think of you, I smile on this ugly face. When I am quiet, you emerge from my heart, just like Aphrodite emerges from the waves.
Where did you put it? Keep it warm in your heart, or put it in the insole? I hope you can open the door of your heart and accept it, but it doesn't deserve it. If only you and my soul could be one. I like listening to the pulse of your thoughts, and I like every movement in your heart. "
—— Wang Xiaobo
7. "Don't worry about getting old, it must be lovely to get old. Moreover, if you are ten years older, of course, I am ten years older, the world is ten years older and God is ten years older. Everything is the same. I am willing to give up everything and miss you for the rest of my life. All admiration. "
-Zhu Shenghao
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To grow old with you cruelly and romantically.
Dear, don't cross the river, the 6th Korea Film Awards for Best Independent Film. This film brings you old age in the most direct way.
Grandpa Zhao Bingwan is 95 years old and grandma Jiang Xilie is 90 years old. They live in a traditional small courtyard in rural Korea, accompanied by two puppies, and the children occasionally bring greetings from big cities.
In late autumn, leaves fell all over the courtyard. When we were cleaning together, Grandpa picked some wild flowers and gave them to Grandma. Grandma says flowers look good, and grandpa says people look good. Grandma helped grandpa put one behind each ear, looked around and said, I am very old, and you are not old at all.
When we first met, she 14 years old and he 19 years old. Time began in that year, and it was fixed in that year.
Although it was still as dark as silk in the morning, it turned into snow at night, and now it is inserted in the temple of the old man, which is two real yellow flowers of tomorrow.
Chatting with flowers, grandpa suddenly began to play, grabbed the leaves and threw them at grandma. Grandma scolded and fought back. Newly swept leaves are scattered in the yard again.
After 76 years of marriage, they can still be happy for a long time in the leaves of wild flowers. In this way, people guess that when they are young, they can giggle for a long time just by looking at each other. However, this is old age, and life is failing day by day, as if there were only three things left: breathing, eating and sleeping.
No, one more thing, to accompany you.
The film broke 654.38+ 10,000 seats in seven days and topped the Korean box office in 654.38+08 days. This speed has also set the fastest record for independent films to break through the box office of one million people in Korean film history.
Why do so many people want to see the tiny lives of two ordinary old people?
Without stars, stunts, high investment, suspenseful plots and showmanship, we will inevitably worry: Is it really possible to move our lives to the screen in this way?
Of course.
Go to the bathroom in the yard together at night, and grandma makes grandpa stand outside the door and sing bravely. When she came out, she took grandpa's hand and said, that's great. Isn't it cold? Grandpa also replied: Why did you catch a cold?
Grandma washes clothes by the river, and grandpa throws pebbles. Grandma, who splashed all over the water, ran after grandpa as fast as she could, as if she knew she had done something wrong.
When the first snow came, grandma said that eating the first snow would improve her hearing, so she and grandpa fed each other snow and made a snowman. There was a snowman, and grandma started throwing snowballs at grandpa again.
This is a realistic version of Benjamin Barton's documentary about wonders. It tells us that rejuvenation is not a legend, but just like this old couple: grow old like children. When we come to the end of our lives, go back to the beginning of our lives and draw this complete circle, our lives will be complete.
Such a documentary can only be done in the simplest way. We can't expect fierce conflict, the hero's shocking words, lighting decoration, narration, perfection of composition and editing tricks. What the director needs to do is to do nothing. Not too close, not too far. When all the skills are useless, the only thing you can expect is the truth.
Touch your head, touch your ears, pick up food, feed Doby dogs, dance, take a bath, wipe your back, fasten your buttons and sleep relatively. I miss the six children who died young, and look at the children who blame each other and quarrel silently. The film is so simple that there is no plot, so rich that it can be imagined. When we want to read this story, we will not be disappointed. In our lingering dusk mood, our brains make up for the lives of our grandparents.
"I am a leaf, lush in spring, enjoying the beating of rain in summer and falling with frost in autumn. When I was young, I was like a flower in bud. Although it looks beautiful after flowering, it will eventually wither with time and end in nothingness. " This passage is nothing special. We often see similar words, but what an old man said was not pleasant to hear.
He's talking about himself. He's talking about a fact.
Grandpa became weaker and weaker and coughed all night. Grandma comforted him to lie down and fell asleep herself. They slept as usual, and grandpa reached out to touch grandma's face and hair. The silent night has melted a thousand words.
What makes a dull life moving? Because it touches your secret feelings, touches the corner of your fear, disease and even death may be antagonistic, only aging, incurable, with the most cruel gentleness, "Dear, don't cross that river" to let you face yourself decades later.
It's a long way to go home after traveling around the world! What will happen when I get old? Who will accompany me through the last leg of the journey? Will my lover be around? Are we still in love? What is an aging body and an aging love? What is the end of life like?
It is expected to wither a little, but why is it still difficult to accept? Holding the skirt and holding hands, can I hold you? Sing another song, eat a side dish, and go to see an oriole in spring. Companionship is the most precious gift in life. Let's cross the river together. So you can connect this life with the afterlife, so you are not lonely or afraid, right? We met to go home together, so we can't say goodbye to this world at the same time. Nothing, I'll clean up this life for you, and you explore the afterlife for me. We have finished this life and will have eternal life.
The most touching part of the film is that when grandpa has only three months to live, grandma tidies up his clothes: he can't tell the difference between winter clothes and summer clothes. Grandma was very worried. She remembered that there were six children who died in childhood in that world: they took their clothes away and didn't even have time to buy them beautiful clothes!
People on this shore and on the other, separated by Yin and Yang, never seem to be separated.
In fact, when you shed tears for other people's lives, when did you shed tears for yourself?
You know, grandparents are your future, your ordinary life without stories, your aging body, your deep attachment to this life full of regrets, and the deepest romance you may have before you die.
The last fixed shot was four minutes, but I don't think it was long at all.
Dead branches and cold mountains, heavy snow all over the sky, changed the picture from color to black and white.
Leaving grandpa's grave, grandma looked back step by step, almost walked out of the picture, and finally sat down again. Inseparable footsteps, inseparable lovers, these footsteps seem to be walking through this life.
Compared with a long life, this shot is too short.