Have you ever tried to change your relationship with your cousin, but you are always worried about this and that. In the end, you feel that the change is not big, you are unsuccessful, and you feel that this relationship is more tense?
I used to be like this, always worried about having a bad relationship with someone. Sometimes when I see that she is not enthusiastic about me, I am worried that if something is wrong, she will ignore me ... but later, through observation, I find that everyone is actually depressed. Just because she is not enthusiastic about you doesn't mean she has a problem with you. Instead of imagining that your relationship is not harmonious, it is better to have a frank talk with her sometime. For example, whenever she looks unhappy, you should take the initiative to ask her "What are you thinking?" ? Why do you think you are unhappy? "Then tell her that you really care about what she thinks of yourself and hope to get on well with her and be honest with her.
In this way, when she understands your thoughts, the relationship will naturally be good ~ ~ When you don't have to worry about these things, you won't "think about it day and night" ~ ~ ~
Good luck! Sleep well from now on! ~~