Status quo: (Bridge collapse scene) External threats, own innocent situation, irrationality of people around. These signs are easy to judge (at least subconsciously), which means that you should escape or change the current environment as soon as possible, at least reflecting your dissatisfaction with your current life. That gold belongs to that dead woman, and that woman is probably a projection of your inner feelings. The woman of your dreams actually died instead of you. You will never be released until she dies. You will feel uneasy when she dies, but there is also a solution-give up or stay away from gold. Gold (a funerary object) is a symbol like the snake in your previous dream.
The second dream is suspected of urine and has no typical predictive characteristics. Because what you said is similar to the habits in your own life, what is a bit abrupt is the water in the trough, which is an uncontrollable sign.
If you want to make any decision in the near future, you'd better wait until your mind is stable. Adjust in your own comfortable way. It takes a little time to get better with your family. Don't take the initiative to do anything, it may be worse.