In addition to what you said, I'll add one more point. Your friend of the opposite sex will still be in your heart for a while, but no matter what you do, it won't help in the near future. And the second thing you said, you don't have to worry, it's nothing. Even if you go, it's not up to you. You are very reluctant to go. Your dream shows that if you don't go, there will be no terrible consequences. At most, you will have a quarrel with your family. That's all.