From the age when you first had this dream (maybe 9, 10 years old? Look, this is the stage when your self-awareness has just taken shape. At that time, you may be vague or curious about the concept of "people", or you have always had a knot since then, probably because you are puzzled about yourself. And as you grow up, the environment in your dream will change with the environment around you, and so will that woman. Judging from the fact that your dream age has been in your twenties, you may have been eager to grow up since the third grade of primary school, and you are full of curiosity and incomprehension about the adult world. This knot has never been untied. Before having this dream next time, you can do some psychological reinforcement on yourself and tell yourself to talk to that woman and see what will happen.