Funerals and weddings are ceremonies. Funeral: Send away a dead person and an old self. Wedding Ceremony: Welcome a new relationship, a new identity and a new self.
The funeral procession and the wedding procession are not on the same road, but they all achieve the same goal. The funeral procession became stronger and dispersed the wedding procession. I don't know if LZ is in such a process of alternating old and new recently.
Change may be painful, change will be repeated, but after change, everything will be vast. Blessing.
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