This dream of yours revolves around your boyfriend.
First of all, I think you are not very happy or satisfied now, because you and your boyfriend have not recovered.
The role relationship between you and your mother reflects your current state of life.
I'm with my family, which means I'm a little away from him.
As for the two key words "second-hand" and "shabby", I don't think you are money worship.
I don't think stability is perfect without his money or other materials.
The turntable is naturally a symbol of pleasure, but it is worn out now, which means the same.
The latter is simpler. You also said the reason why you haven't recovered, "because he is busy ..."
I haven't had a chance to recover because of my busy work.
Your subconscious will naturally have some rejection of his work.
This is reflected in the dream. You want to be close to his working environment, but you can't get in or even get blocked.
That's about it. I can see that you have a crush on him. I wish you a happy life at an early date =)