There will be other psychology in marriage, and the process of presenting these psychology is when two people have conflicts.
Contradictions and conflicts are often manifested through differences. The differences in people's daily life are different from their daily habits.
For example, eating habits, physical habits, hygiene habits, sleeping habits, attitudes towards some things, social events, money, whether to eat spicy food, love and hate, and attitudes towards differences will all be reflected.
What do you think when these differences are presented?
If you think the difference is there, that's good.
If you think you love me, you shouldn't be different from me, you should be like me.
You will force the other person to listen to your attitude towards life and your living habits.
Besides forcing him to obey you, you will also judge him. Your evaluation is often very low. "You are a rural person, so just can have this ..."
In the process of your constant evaluation of him, it will become accusations and self-blame.
If you blame others, will others bear it? Why is your living habit good, why is your value system good and why is it correct?
In this state, if two people accuse me and I accuse you, I will accuse you even more and the contradiction will escalate.
You just accused me of this behavior. I blame not only your behavior, but also your family. I think you have a problem, I think your parents have a problem, and I think your ancestors have problems for eighteen generations. If you expand denial, no one will want to be denied.
When no one wants to be denied in the process, he won't want to be with you, and then he will have empathy and he will deny you and this relationship. Is it necessary to continue this relationship?
These marriage psychology developed step by step, and finally turned into a chicken flying a dog jumping.