How to realize the goals and ideals in your heart?

First of all, I want to tell a short story: Once upon a time, there was a little bear and a little tiger. They are good friends and live in a big forest. Suddenly one day, they found a box floating in the river, which smelled of bananas and had a string of letters written on it: Panama. So they decided to look for Panama. They searched and searched, turned over countless mountains, crossed countless rivers and walked countless roads, and finally found that Panama was actually the big forest where they lived. Once upon a time, a little dog asked his mother: Where is happiness? Mom says happiness is on your tail. The puppy bit its tail with its mouth, but it kept biting. It told her in dismay that she would never catch happiness. Mom smiled and said, as long as you go forward, happiness will always follow you. These two stories bring us two inspirations: First, it is very important to find the goal in your heart. Second, the starting point of the goal should not be too far, but should be based on the present.

Four blind spots should be avoided in the process of pursuing goals. First, life is your own. Don't compare with others. When I was a child, I was always taught that life was a game. From the starting line, I began to be anxious and afraid. In the future, life will be more jittery and do the same thing, and in the end, it will be yourself who suffers.

Second, skill is not overwhelming. Maybe I wanted to learn to play basketball when I was a child, but I didn't learn it. When I was in college, I fell in love with a girl on the basketball court, but she was taken away by others because her skills were abused.

Third, open and then open. Although it makes sense to change with constancy, nothing is invariable. Look at everything with a dynamic, open, positive and positive attitude, constantly stimulate intelligence and increase talents.

Fourth, empathy. A lot of discussions, exchanges and quarrels are nothing more than sorting out the opinions of both sides. Whoever it is 1 always thinks about competition and capture. In fact, we can put ourselves in the shoes and see if we can achieve a win-win result. Three ways to achieve goals and pursue happiness. First, briefly empty a target. We want to make money and travel. Otherwise, we can put aside a certain goal for a while, work for a while and travel for a while. Just like the gap year in college, we temporarily stop a certain goal and start again when the time is right.

Second, learn to transfer ability. When a skill is not competent, try a variety of skill combinations. When a skill doesn't work today, try to use it in something in the future and find a new use space for each of our skills.

Third, by changing yourself, you can change the non-ego. If work usually represents stress, bondage, anxiety, etc. Try to enjoy it actively from another angle, such as constantly improving personal skills through work, so as to achieve self-improvement. A person's view of goals reflects a person's model. At a low level, there is bound to be an illusion of self-satisfaction, but this short-lived illusion will be broken after a little longer. And most of the time, we are in this low-level mode. The higher-level pattern not only shows that he has higher standards for everything, but also determines that he can often go further, go more solidly and steadily. With the accumulation of time, his life will gain more and more, including material, knowledge, thought, emotion, value and so on.

Therefore, we should set higher goals, establish a higher pattern, proceed from the present, work hard in this clear direction, and finally benefit ourselves.

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