First, hold a grand banquet.
Funerals and happy events have some imaginary things, although this feeling may be a bit misplaced.
But in fact, the dishes and atmosphere of the funeral are bleak and quiet, and the overall mood is in grief.
Many people will say, then why do you have a banquet? In fact, this is a custom handed down from the countryside.
Whether it's a wedding or a funeral, it's a very bad thing if no one is popular, so even if it's a funeral, I hope many people will come and help, so that I will feel warm and have some face.
Then these relatives and friends can't come for nothing. They must put a few tables to thank everyone for their concern and help, so it is inevitable to put a few tables like a happy event.
Second, the adult world should be superficial.
In fact, the death of a loved one is a very sad thing, but visitors from all over the world come for family matters and care about you. At this time, they must cheer up, be secular, make the scene passable, and let the whole process go on.
So sometimes there is a strange phenomenon, obviously a funeral, but these people still greet each other with smiles, take care of these relatives and friends, and thank them for coming.
In fact, the death of a loved one is still very sad in my heart, but what can I do? Everyone is an adult, so we should take care of the overall situation and not just immerse ourselves in our own sadness, so sometimes we feel that the scene is as harmonious as a happy event.