What is the best way for divorced couples to communicate?

I often think, is marriage happy or unhappy? Why do so many people choose divorce now? Are these one-year itch, two-year itch and seven-year itch really so difficult to climb? Today's society pays attention to the freedom of human nature, but there is no need to talk about divorce easily on the impulse of the brain. I don't think this is really the performance that a mature adult should have. But for whatever reason, it must be awkward for couples to meet again after divorce. So what is the best way for divorced couples to communicate? I think this should be discussed separately according to different situations.

The first is couples without children. This kind of divorce is also more convenient. After all, there is not much concern. I think the best way for divorced couples to communicate in this situation is to be the most familiar stranger. Although it is said that husband and wife are grateful for a hundred days, a hundred days of husband and wife are as deep as the sea, but after divorce, you are not husband and wife, and there is nothing to be ungrateful for. Everything is sorted out, just fly separately, no need to contact again. Since we are tired of each other, why contact each other? If you find a sense of existence, or have abnormal psychology, and see that the other party is not doing well, I will be relieved. Why? Friends can't be affectionate, friendship can't be recalled, and there's no need to kill each other.

The best way for divorced couples to communicate is the most familiar strangers, mainly childless couples. Another way for couples who already have children, their communication methods should be discussed separately from the above, because children are always innocent, and it is extremely cruel to let children bear the consequences of adults' mistakes. Originally, his parents' divorce had caused him great harm. If it is not handled properly, it will cause lifelong harm to the child. Therefore, couples with children must take care of their children's feelings.

The best way for divorced couples who already have children to communicate is to be the most familiar normal person. There are two situations. First of all, the baby is not born yet. If you think that at this time, you two have conflicts that can't be solved unless you divorce, I think if the child is not yet three months old, it's best to abort, which is not only responsible for you and him, but also for the child. You can refer to the first one after abortion. The second situation is that the child has been born and may be able to express himself and express his emotional values. At this time, the best way to communicate is to be the most familiar ordinary person. Everything about children, two people live in peace, nothing else. We've done everything we need to do for cooperation, and I'll say goodbye to you for the rest. Like some divorced people, pandering, I don't like it. Whoever gets divorced in this world can't live.

Therefore, different divorced couples should have different ways to get along, but the leaves are different and the roots are the same. That is, the best way for divorced couples to communicate is to be strangers as much as possible. From then on, my world no longer has you, and your world no longer has me. Go home to your mother.