We often say that a person is just like his name. For us, the name is the first label after everyone is born, and this label will always accompany us all our lives. How to make the name catchy and meaningful is a test for parents. Therefore, many new treasure parents around us have made difficulties when they named the baby. What should we do?
In China, many children's names are obtained by grandparents, and the old people have a lot of trouble in naming their children. It takes no effort to move out of the genealogy and quote classics, but they are willing to work so hard for their children's future happiness. And in some places, children's names should be combined with birthdates, so there is a lot of knowledge in this name.
There was a precious mother who gave birth to triplet sons, which made the elders happy, but it was difficult to choose a name at the thought of it, and it was not a good job to come here all at once. But never thought, the child's grandfather casually said three names, and people present praised the name for being so good and domineering!
Having a good name makes life "worry-free"
Mother Chen lives in Guangzhou, and has been at home full-time since she got pregnant. To many people's amazement, she is pregnant with triplets, so she has suddenly become a treasure at home. On the day of delivery, when the doctor told his family that it was three big fat boys, the grandfather of the child was so happy that he immediately began to think of names. As we all know, in many people's minds, the child's name affects the child's future fortune, so we can't neglect it. Because the child's surname is "Gong", everyone racked their brains and couldn't figure it out. When Grandpa said, he simply said "Gong Ping, Gong Zheng and Gong Kai", which is simple and clear, catchy and very recognizable.
Other people have also agreed. These three names are homophonic, fair and open. The grandfather of the child joined the army when he was young, and his style is very strict. Therefore, these three names are simple and give hope to the elders. It's really great!
children's names are not well chosen, so they are prone to these troubles?
1. The repetition rate is too high, and there is no recognition.
In recent years, many online celebrity names have become popular, and the repetition rate of these names is very high. In some classes, there are even two or three children with the same names, which will make the children's names look very mediocre and uncharacteristic, which is not conducive to teachers' usual management, and will also be a great worry for children.
2. It is easy to be nicknamed, and children are unhappy.
Some parents like to give their children a strange name, such as "Wang Wangwang", which makes people feel happy when they hear it. However, when children enter kindergarten, many students are not mature enough, so they will nickname others through their names. Names like Wang Wangwang will be called "Dog Wangwang" by their classmates.
So, what should we pay attention to when naming children?
1. Don't name men, women or men
A person's name will accompany a child's life, so you must be very careful when choosing a name. In China, a boy's name can be masculine and upright, which will make people know that it is a boy. If it is a girl, it can be gentle and fair, so that others can intuitively judge his gender through his name.
A friend of mine named the boy Bao very feminine, called Wang Bingbing. Many people think of "Bai Bing" and "Fan Bingbing" when they hear Bing Bing, and they always thought it was a female baby. It was not until they met that this misunderstanding was too big. However, with the growth of children's age, the probability of this misunderstanding is getting higher and higher, and children don't like this name very much, so after family discussion, they gave it to them.
2. Don't be too non-mainstream, rubbing against celebrities.
There are many idolize people in life, and there are many drama-chasing people. Because they are too idolize, they want their children's names to be similar, so there are many "Angelababy" and "Lu Han", and too many names collide with stars, which can easily lead to many problems. Because the star will be out of fashion, and this is the star that parents like, not the child's, and the color of parents is imposed, the child will feel that the name has lost its personality.
and similar to celebrities, classmates and friends around them will also like to make fun of them, which will become a joke for everyone, which will also add a lot of troubles to children.
3. Don't use words that are too "sad"
Children are the hope and future of a family. Parents want their children to be healthy, cheerful and intelligent, and no one wants their children to be negative, pessimistic and degenerate. Therefore, we must choose the word "sunshine" when choosing a name. I remember hating some people's names before. Some parents are so quick-witted that they will call their children Wu Chou. However, there is nothing wrong with reading the name, but it is always strange to read it, and it is easy to be associated with "hatred and ugliness". In the long run, this name is also easy to be used as a conversation material, which makes children unhappy. A name often indicates a child's personality, so it is best not to touch the funeral culture.
So, if you get a good name, parents will be less worried. Parents must have a snack on the question of choosing a name for their children!