Parents don't trust each other, what should I do?

In fact, whether parents don't trust each other or not will lead to problems in parents' marriage. If we don't trust our friends at ordinary times, our friendship will also have problems. If you don't trust your boyfriend and girlfriend, it will also lead to emotional breakdown. So mutual distrust is very bad for the relationship. Your parents don't trust each other, which means that both of them have problems. Then you have to deal with this problem separately between your father and mother.

First of all, you should deal with a problem of your father. How can I put it? Now that your parents are at this age, what you don't trust is usually the so-called feelings. In other words, both your parents feel that the other is unfaithful to such a marriage. Then your first problem now is to exhort your father, and at the same time to identify whether your father is loyal to his marriage with your mother. First, you need to talk to your father. After all, two people have been together for decades. Are there any big waves you haven't seen before, and you don't know each other very well? To be a man, we must first learn to take the initiative, but also learn to be generous and humble. If you look at the problem generously, you may not have some unnecessary distrust of your mother.

The second is to talk to your mother. The attitude towards your father is the same as yours, and the steps are the same. You have to explain to her the consequences of not trusting your father and your husband, which will only make your husband more and more indifferent to this decades-long marriage. So giving him more trust is also an opportunity for you to marry your father.

At the last moment, let parents date, trust each other, understand each other and trust each other. We all need to know that it takes two hands to make a sound, so two people can try their best.