? Disciples' Rules: Disciples' Rules was originally named Xun, and was written by scholars during the reign of Kangxi in the Qing Dynasty. Its content adopts Article 6 of The Analects of Confucius: "Disciples are filial, brothers are younger, sincere and trustworthy, and love all people, while kindness is more than mechanical literature", which is composed of three words and one sentence, two sentences and one rhyme, and is described in five parts;
It specifically lists the etiquette and norms that children should have when they are at home, going out, treating others and studying, with special emphasis on family education and life education. Later, after Jia Cunren's revision and adaptation in Qing Dynasty, it was renamed Disciples Rules, which is the best reading for enlightening self-cultivation, educating children to be perfect, guarding against evil and keeping upright, and cultivating a loyal family style.
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General narration? Disciples, the first precepts of saints, are filial piety, sincerely believe in loving the masses, love learning literature, and have spare capacity.
Yi Jie: Disciple Rules is a life standard based on the teachings of Confucius, the most holy teacher. First of all, we should be filial to our parents and love our brothers and sisters in our daily life. Secondly, we should be cautious about our daily speech acts and keep our promises. It is very important to get along with the public, be equal and friendly, be close to people with kindness and learn from them. If you have extra time and energy after doing it, go and learn useful knowledge such as Six Arts. ?
Be filial to your parents when you enter. Don't delay your parents' life. Don't be lazy. Parents should respect and listen to their responsibilities.
Easy to understand: answer your parents' phone calls in time, and don't delay for a long time before agreeing; Parents have something to explain, so they should leave immediately, without delay. Parents teach us the truth of being a man and doing things for our own good, and we should listen respectfully. When your parents blame and advise you to do something wrong, you should accept it with an open mind and don't argue irrationally to make your parents angry and sad. ?
It's warm in winter and warm in summer. Sue when you go out, but face it.
Easy to understand: Be considerate when serving parents. Huang Xiang, a 24-year-old, helps his father cool his bed before going to bed in summer and warm his bed when it is cold in winter. It is really worth learning. After getting up in the morning, you should visit your parents first and say hello to them. After returning home in the afternoon, you should tell your parents what happened outside today, and report your safety to your parents to reassure the elderly. When you leave home, you must tell your parents where you are going. When you get home, you must report to your parents in person to reassure them. In daily life, we should keep a normal mind and rules, do things regularly, and don't change them at will, lest parents worry.
Although the matter is small, don't be good at it, but be good at it. Although things are small, don't hide them.
Easy to understand: even if it is a small matter, don't be willful and make a decision without telling your parents. If you are willful and easy to make mistakes, it will be detrimental to your duties as a child, so it is unfilial to worry your parents. Although the public property is small, it can't be kept for yourself. If you hide it, your character will be lacking, and your parents will be very sad to know.
Love is good, love is evil, love is bad, love is bad, love is bad, shame is bad, dear, why is it difficult for me to be filial and hate my filial piety? Fang Xian's relatives all remonstrated, which made my voice better. My voice softened and my voice was not pleasant.
Easy to understand: parents should try their best to prepare what they like and carefully remove what their parents hate. Take good care of your health, don't let yourself get hurt easily and worry your parents. Pay attention to your moral cultivation and don't do anything immoral to humiliate your parents. When parents love us, filial piety is easy; When our parents don't like us, or the discipline is too strict, we are just as filial, and we can also reflect on our own behavior, understand our parents' wishes, try to mend our ways and do better. This kind of filial piety is the most commendable.
When parents are at fault, we should carefully persuade them to be good, have a sincere attitude and have a soft and pleasant voice; If parents don't listen to persuasion, wait patiently until there is a suitable opportunity, such as when parents are in a good mood or happy, and then continue to persuade; If parents still don't accept it, or even get angry, at this time, although we are so sad that we cry, we also ask our parents to make up for it. Even if you are beaten, you have no regrets, so as not to trap your parents in grievances and let them make mistakes again and again, making a big mistake.
When I got sick, I tried medicine first, stayed in bed day and night, and mourned for three years. You will always be sad, turn your life into wine and meat, and do your best to serve the dead like a living thing.
Easy to understand: when parents are sick, children should take care of them wholeheartedly. Once they are seriously ill, they have to wait on them day and night, and they can't just leave. After the death of parents, during the mourning period, we should always remember and feel the kindness of parents. Your daily life must be adjusted and changed, you can't covet enjoyment, and you should give up alcohol and meat. Dealing with parents' funeral should conform to etiquette, not sloppy, not extravagant for face, which is true filial piety. Be sincere when you worship, and treat your dead parents with the same respect as before.
When you are away, your brother, your brother, your brother, your brother, your brother, your filial piety, your property, your resentment, your words, your anger, your self-denial.
It is easy to understand: brothers and sisters should love their brothers and sisters, and brothers and sisters should know how to respect them. Brothers and sisters can live in harmony, parents are naturally happy, and filial piety is also among them. If you don't haggle over property when you get along with others, resentment can't be generated. You can be tolerant in words, say more good things, don't say bad things, and hold back angry words. Unnecessary contradictions and resentments will naturally not happen.
Or eat or sit behind the old and young? To call someone long is to call someone away.
Easy to understand: good life education should be cultivated from an early age; Whether you are sitting or walking, you should be courteous, and the elders should follow the order, so that the elderly are the first and the young are the last. An elder should summon someone for something. If that person is not here, ask what it is. Help if you can, but tell him if you can't.
Don't call your elders by their first names. Don't meet your elders. Lu Yu's condition is getting worse. He was speechless and ready to retire. It takes more than a hundred steps to dismount.
Easy to understand: call your elders by their first names, be modest and polite in front of them, and don't show off your talents; When you meet your elders on the road, you should greet them. When they have nothing to do, you should stand back respectfully and wait for them to leave. Gu Li: Whether riding a horse or riding a car, you should get off the horse or get off the bus to greet your elders on the way. You can't leave until your elders go a little further, about a hundred paces.
Elder station? Young people don't sit, old people sit, and life is sitting? Your elders should speak in a low voice, but they should not move forward, but must retreat. They must ask in the future whether they regard their father as their father and their brothers as their brothers.
It's easy to understand: when you are with your elders, when they are standing, the younger generation should stand with them and not sit by themselves. After the elders sit down, they are told to sit down before they can sit down. When talking to elders, the voice should be soft and moderate, and the volume of the answer is too small to hear clearly, which is also inappropriate. If you have something in front of your elders, you should step forward quickly and respond slowly, which is in line with etiquette. Listen attentively when the elders ask questions, and don't look around. Treat uncles, uncles and other elders with the same filial piety and respect as your own father, and treat siblings with the same love and respect as your own brothers.
It's easy to get up early and go to bed late, but it's a pity to wash your hands, gargle and urinate in the morning.
Easy to understand: people should get up early, seize the time and work hard in time. If they often stay up late or even stay up late, it will not only be bad for their health, but also affect their daily routine. Time and tide wait for no man, so cherish youth. After getting up in the morning, be sure to wash your face, brush your teeth and rinse your mouth to refresh your mind and get off to a good start. Be sure to wash your hands after urinating, develop good hygiene habits and ensure your health.
The crown must be straight, the buttons must be fastened, and the socks and shoes must be important? Is the crown suit positioned so as not to get messy and dirty? Is it expensive to wear clothes and clean clothes? Don't be picky about your diet.
Easy to understand: Pay attention to the neatness and cleanliness of clothes, wear the right hat, fasten the clothes, wear socks evenly, and tie the shoelaces tightly, otherwise you will easily trip, so it is advisable to wear everything in a steady and dignified way. After returning home, clothes, hats, shoes and socks should be positioned to avoid clutter, and it will take half a day to find them when necessary. Dressing needs to be neat, inexpensive, famous and gorgeous. Dressing should consider your identity and occasion, and also measure the economic situation at home. This is the way to keep a house. Pay attention to balanced nutrition in daily diet, eat more fruits and vegetables, eat less meat, not picky eaters, not partial eclipse, eat eight points full regularly, and avoid excessive consumption, so as not to increase the burden on the body and endanger health.
Don't drink when you are young. Getting drunk is the ugliest step. Worship and respect? Don't walk on the threshold, limp, lean against the basket and shake your moustache.
Easy to understand: drinking is harmful to health, so you should obey the law. Teenagers are not allowed to drink alcohol. Adults should not drink too much. When they drink too much, they will talk crazy and expose their dirty laundry, causing a lot of right and wrong. When walking, the pace should be calm and steady, unhurried and unhurried; Stand up straight, stand up straight, hold your head up and hold your chest high, and be full of energy. Don't stoop and be dejected. Greeting others, whether bowing or handing, should be sincere and respectful, not perfunctory. Don't step on the threshold when entering the door, don't stand askew, don't stretch your legs when sitting, and don't shake your legs. These are frivolous and arrogant actions, and they are not gentlemanly.
Don't open the curtains slowly, don't turn around, don't touch the side frame? Like holding profits? If someone enters the virtual room, don't be too busy, too busy, too wrong, too afraid of difficulties and too careless.
Easy to understand: when entering a room, you should gently and slowly lift the curtains and open the door to avoid making noise. When walking or turning indoors, you should be careful not to touch the edges and corners of objects to avoid injury. Be careful when you take things, even if you take empty utensils, you should be as careful as if you are full of things, so as not to fall and break them. When you enter an empty room, you should act like someone, not casually. Don't be in a hurry, because you are prone to make mistakes when you are busy, don't hesitate to retreat because of difficulties, and don't be hasty and handle things casually.
Never go near evil in a fight, never ask who will get started, never ask who will be saved in class, never ask who is not clear about me.
Easy to understand: Anyone who is prone to quarrel and fight, such as gambling, pornography and other places of right and wrong, should dare to refuse, do not approach, so as not to be adversely affected. Some evil, obscene, absurd things should also be declined, don't listen, don't look, don't ask questions curiously, so as not to pollute the kind heart. Before you start, you should ask, "Is anyone there?" Don't rush in. Before entering the living room, you should raise your voice to let people in the room know that someone is coming. If people in the room ask, "Who is it?" You should answer the name, not "me!" Me! " People can't tell who I am. ?
Don't ask is stealing. It is not difficult to lend someone in time and then use it urgently.
It's easy to understand: if you borrow something from others, you must explain it in advance and ask for permission. Taking it without prior consent is stealing. Borrowed things should be used sparingly and returned on time. If there is an urgent need in the future, it is not difficult to borrow it again.
Letter? What's wrong with saying what you believe, cheating and ridiculous? It's better to talk less than to talk more, but it's better not to use rhetoric and foul language.
Easy to understand: tell the truth first. When you promise others, you must keep your promise. You can't promise what you can't do, you can't cheat, you can't use rhetoric! Talk less than talk more, talk less than talk more. Speak appropriately, say what you should, never say what you shouldn't, be cautious in life, talk realistically, and don't use rhetoric. Although it is good, it is not reliable. Treacherous language, foul language and the vulgar tone of street hooligans should be avoided.
Don't talk rashly about things you don't know. Don't talk rashly about things you don't know. Don't be careless about what you say.
Easy to understand: don't express your opinions easily before you see the truth, and don't spread them at will if you don't know enough about things, so as not to cause adverse consequences. Don't promise meaningless things easily. If you agree easily, it will lead to doing nothing and doing it badly, which will put you in a dilemma. Speak clearly, articulate clearly, speak slowly, not too fast, and don't be vague. When you meet people who are right or wrong, listen to them and make wise judgments. Don't be influenced, get involved in right or wrong, and don't mind your own business.
Seeing people who are good means thinking far and wide, and seeing people who are evil means introspection, that is, changing without adding police.
It is easy to understand: when you see the advantages or good aspects of others, you should immediately think of learning to look up to him. Even if there is a big difference in ability at present, we should make up our minds to catch up step by step. When you see other people's shortcomings or bad behaviors, you should reflect on yourself and see if you also have these shortcomings. If there is, we should correct it, if not, we should encourage it.
Learn only by virtue? Why don't people sharpen themselves, and food and clothing are not as good as people? I have heard of anger, fame, happiness, hurting friends and benefiting friends, but I am afraid of being famous and being too happy to let my friends get married.
Easy to understand: everyone should pay attention to the cultivation of their own morality, knowledge and skills. If they feel inferior to others, they should motivate themselves to work hard. As for the way you dress, or eat worse than others, you don't have to worry about it, and you don't have to worry about inferiority. If a person is angry when others say that he is deficient, and happy when others praise him, then bad friends will come to you, and real good friends will gradually alienate and shrink back.
On the other hand, when you hear compliments from others, you will not get carried away, but will reflect on yourself, lest you do not do well enough and continue to work hard; When others criticize their shortcomings, they are not only not angry, but also willing to accept them, so honest people will gradually like to be close to us.
If you have no intention, you are barking up the wrong tree. If you have an intention, it's called evil. Can you change it? If there's nothing to hide, add a koo.
It's easy to understand: an unintentional mistake is called a mistake. If you make a mistake on purpose, it is a crime to make a mistake on purpose. It is the behavior of a brave man to know his mistakes and correct them. Naturally, mistakes gradually decrease and disappear. If he refuses to admit his mistake in order to save face, he still has to hide it, which is equivalent to adding mistakes to his own mistakes.
Love all people, everyone must love the sky with the same load? People who walk high have their own names, and their value is not high. A very talented person asks a very capable person for what he believes.
It is easy to understand: as long as they are of the same kind, regardless of nationality, race or religious belief, they must be in love. Everything in heaven and earth lives and grows together, so we should help each other and cooperate with each other to safeguard this symbiotic and prosperous life community. People with noble virtues will naturally have a high reputation. Everyone respects his virtue, not his appearance. A talented person has an excellent ability to handle things, and his reputation is naturally extraordinary. However, people admire him because of his ability to do things, not because he is good at bragging. ?
Don't be selfish, don't flatter the rich, don't be arrogant and poor, don't be bored, don't like new people, don't be idle, don't bother people, don't talk.
It is easy to understand: when you have the ability to serve everyone, don't be selfish, just think about yourself and don't want to pay. We should learn to appreciate and admire the talents of others, instead of criticizing, jealous or slandering them. Don't flatter the rich, don't be arrogant in front of the poor, or despise them. Don't like the new and hate the old, cherish old friends and don't covet new friends or new things. Don't bother those who are busy. When others are in a bad mood, don't disturb them with gossip, which will increase their troubles and anxiety.
Don't expose people's shortcomings and don't say good is good. The more people know, the more they want to encourage others, the worse they are, the more they do good deeds and exhort each other, and the more they suffer. ?
Easy to understand: do not expose other people's shortcomings, do not publicize other people's privacy. Praising others' good deeds is doing good deeds. When the other person hears your praise, he will definitely encourage good deeds. To publicize the shortcomings or shortcomings of others is to do a bad thing. Too much criticism will bring disaster to yourself. Friends should discipline each other, persuade good and abstain from evil, and jointly establish good moral cultivation. If you can't convince each other if you are wrong, then you are both flawed in character.
Anyone who knows what to take from you and how to take more and less will ask himself first, and do it quickly if he doesn't want to take it.
It is easy to understand: the acquisition and giving of property must be clearly distinguished. It is better to give more to others and take less from yourself, so as to get along well with others. Before you entrust others to do something, you should ask yourself: If it were me, would you like it? If you don't even like yourself, you should stop at once.
If you want to repay the kindness, you forget to complain. Be kind to maids and servants, though expensive? Persuade people, or persuade them to be speechless.
It is easy to understand that people should always want to repay their kindness. If others are sorry for themselves, they should be lenient and forget it. Don't stay too long and forget the past. Don't always take it to heart, punish yourself and worry about yourself! As for others' kindness to us, we should be grateful, always bear in mind, and always want to repay. When treating domestic servants, we should pay attention to our moral integrity and set an example. Although moral integrity is very important, kindness and generosity are more valuable. If we force others to obey, they will be dissatisfied. Only by persuading others with reason can others be persuaded without complaint.
Kindness is the same as human beings. People who love nuts dare not say it, which is unattractive. They can be kind and live a good life, but they can't be kind and harm villains.
It is easy to understand: the same person, good and evil are evil, but the spiritual level is mixed. There are many laymen who follow the trend, but few who are kind and loving. If there is a benevolent person, everyone will naturally fear him, because he speaks impartially, does not hide anything, and does not please others. So everyone is in awe. It's really great to get close to people with kindness and learn from them, because it will improve our virtue and reduce our mistakes.
If you refuse to approach a kind-hearted gentleman, there will be endless harm, because unscrupulous villains will come in and approach us, and over time, our words and deeds will be affected, leading to the failure of the whole life.
Spare no effort to learn literature. Learning literature is long and flashy, and not learning literature makes your opinions unreasonable.
It's easy to understand: you can't perform the duties of filial piety, filial piety, honesty, faithfulness, loving the masses and being kind to others. You just study hard, even if you have some knowledge, it will only increase your flashy habits and become an unrealistic person. What's the use of reading like this? On the other hand, if you just do it blindly and refuse to learn, it is easy to do things according to your own prejudice and blind the truth. ?
There are three ways to read: read with your heart and read with your mouth. Don't admire. Don't be soft until it's over. Try to get stuck and have doubts. With notes, people will ask the correct meaning.
Easy to understand: the method of reading should pay attention to three, eyes, mouth and heart. All three are indispensable, so that we can get twice the result with half the effort. To learn knowledge, you must be single-minded and specialized in order to go deep. You can't have finished reading this book not long ago, and you still envy other books and want to read other books. You will never settle down. You must finish reading this book before you can read another one.
When making a reading plan, it may be easier. In the actual implementation, we should step up our study and strictly implement it. You should not be lazy. After a long time, if you work hard, all the difficulties and doubts will naturally be solved. When in doubt at school, you should always take notes. Ask your tutor whenever you get a chance to make sure you really understand its true meaning. ?
In several cases, clean walls and clean rooms, clean pens and clean inkstones, improper writing, disrespectful writing, and poor conception, I decided to read ancient books and classics. Although there are urgent volumes and neat bundles, if there are any defects, they will be supplemented.
Easy to understand: when entering a room, you should gently and slowly lift the curtains and open the door to avoid making noise. When walking or turning indoors, you should be careful not to touch the edges and corners of objects to avoid injury. Be careful when taking things, even if you are holding an empty vessel, be as careful as if it is full of things, and don't fall or break it. When you enter an empty room, you should act like someone, not casually. Don't be in a hurry, because you are prone to make mistakes when you are busy, don't hesitate to retreat because of difficulties, and don't be hasty and handle things casually.
Never go near evil in a fight, never ask who will get started, never ask who will be saved in class, never ask who is not clear about me.
Easy to understand: the study should be neat and clean, and the walls should be kept clean. When reading, pens, ink, paper, inkstones and other stationery on the desk should be placed neatly, not messy, and everything should be in order, so as to calm down and study. The ancients wrote with a brush. Before writing, they must grind the ink. If you are absent-minded, the ink will deviate from the center. If your handwriting is crooked, it means you are impetuous. Books and textbooks should be classified, arranged neatly, put in a fixed position, and put back after reading. In spite of the emergency, you should put the book away before you leave. Books are the crystallization of wisdom. If there is a defect, you should repair it and keep it intact.
Unless we are holy books, don't treat us as clever and bad-hearted? Don't give up on yourself, don't give up on yourself, saints and sages can be tamed.
Easy to understand: Books that do not involve the words and deeds of sages and bad books and periodicals that are harmful to physical and mental health should be discarded, so as to avoid physical and mental pollution, blind wisdom and unhealthy mind. When encountering difficulties or setbacks, don't give up on yourself, don't be cynical, and see nothing pleasing to the eye. You should make up your mind to study hard. Although the realm of sages is high, it can be reached step by step.