Confucius basically said eight words about governing the country: "rule by virtue, rule by courtesy." This road is the way to show the way. This is the ancient moral road. It's universal. In this kind of morality, guiding and standardizing with courtesy is unified action. Therefore, the management thoughts, methods and strategies of Confucianism are all aimed at getting what they deserve and what they deserve. Morality is the inherent requirement of our thoughts and feelings, and etiquette is the external code of conduct. These two things are complementary and indispensable, and they will always be linked together. Because with morality, if there is no specific code of conduct, it is impossible to implement it, and it is impossible to check what you say you want to do. How can you be filial? How to be filial without specific requirements? Tell me whether he is filial or not. Tell me whether I did it right or wrong. There is no way to implement, there is no way to check. Therefore, rules are a gift. What occasion, what problem should I do? This is a set of detailed, systematic and complete ancient things. Of course, these are not enough. Only one person has been standardized by you, and there is no inner feeling in it. I can give you an example. For example, the civilization we are talking about now requires polite language. For hundreds of millions of years, I may not remember you. Soon after the reform and opening up, I advocated polite language, ten words. I strongly advocated at that time. At that time, I spent so much effort to publicize the results on the walls of every store. What did people say or why? Because he just wanted to talk about the person who did this, and it didn't solve it. Why did he do it? This polite language embodies the relationship between people. At that time, because the whole society, especially the waiters in some shops, did not solve the problem conceptually, I waited on them. You have money, I serve them, and he doesn't want to. Customers also have this idea. When I buy something, you must do what you do. Both sides have not solved the problem every day. Only when there is no heartfelt feeling. This solves the Buller problem. If you don't have this standard, you should respect customers. The customer is God. Why aren't there a few specific things he doesn't know how to do? You can't find it either. So this means, for example, I just said that you should be friends, but your father-son relationship, teacher-student relationship and superior-subordinate relationship are different, with different norms and requirements. I thought you said it was not good to give the boss the treatment of family and parents. He must realize it in theory. And this kind of "virtue" and "courtesy" can reflect the consideration that each has its own place and needs. This is the goal of ancient moral harmony, so the function of courtesy is to value the harmony of this place. Now, we should not only have "morality" and "courtesy", but also abide by modern society and legal society. We govern the country according to law, and law is also an important social norm, so I think it can be said that to achieve a harmonious society or a harmonious unit, we must pay attention to these three aspects. Take advantage of these three aspects of the system, because his rules and regulations have a set of rules and regulations, of course, there is a set of norms and etiquette, an unwritten etiquette, and rules and regulations, and we must act according to law. "Rites" and "laws" should be based on moral consciousness. Let everyone consciously abide by it. This is one aspect. To achieve this goal, we need to combine these three normative systems to solve this problem.