Reading is undoubtedly an aspect of taking the initiative to suffer hardships, but some people study hard after reading in an attempt to stop eating other hardships in life. In fact, this idea is just one-sided wishful thinking. Reading only actively avoids the pain of not reading in life, and cannot replace other pains in life.
People who don't read may suffer from not reading, but those who suffer from reading may not be able to escape many other hardships in life.
The world is endless, and the sea of suffering is endless. When you come into the world, since you can't escape from this overwhelming cage, you must learn to take the initiative to suffer. Not only should we take the initiative to suffer from reading, but we should also learn to take the initiative to suffer from many other hardships.
Learning to take the initiative to suffer hardships can make fun and make life meaningful; Suffering passively can only taste bitterness in complaining.
If you are afraid of pain, why did you come to earth?
Some people would rather eat the bitterness of life than study.
My father, at that time, because of family conditions, they had to give up their studies and join the work early. In his understanding, it is relatively happy to be able to eat the bitterness of reading.
Now he can only eat the bitterness of life. After suffering all his life, he always said: as long as you study hard, I will also provide you with iron.
What he didn't expect was what if he couldn't afford to sell iron?
Reading is a pleasure.
Unfortunately, due to the limitation of cognitive ability, many of us don't understand this sentence deeply when we can read.
For example, Xiaopang, a sixth-grade boy in Hang Cheng, has been obsessed with cooking for three years, and his grades are at the bottom every year, and he got a score in math. The anxious mother invited a psychologist. The doctor evaluated Xiao Pang and suggested that not every child is reading material. Instead of spending time on fruitless tutoring, let children do what they are interested in and give full play to their strengths.
In Xiao pang's mind, cooking doesn't use the brain like reading, and he has made some achievements in cooking at present. Therefore, he thinks that the future road will always be so smooth, and he can achieve achievements that he can't get by studying with his cooking skills.
Education does not mean ability, but if you have the ability, you can receive education.
Some netizens summed up their education and cooking skills: "In reality, no education+cooking skills = coolies, low education+cooking skills = chefs, China culture+cooking skills = chefs, high culture+cooking skills = chefs, schoolmasters+cooking skills = catering empire."
It is conceivable that Xiao Pang will become an ordinary chef if he gives up the requirement of grade and pursues his own interests.
Refuse to study hard, because many people can't give up their hearts and are very hard on themselves.
They replaced the pain of reading with a seemingly effortless choice. I think if I avoid reading for a while, I can get rid of the bondage of reading less all my life. I think, with the growth of age, time will gradually smooth out the debt owed by reading.
Tagore said: Life is a repetition of ruthlessness and happiness. There is no happiness without cruelty.
But all the gifts of life are marked with prices in the dark.
How much laziness you stole at this time, fate will make you return it in your later life. The more we learn, the wider our knowledge and vision will be, and at the same time, we will find more and more things we don't understand.
Cai Kangyong said, "At the age of 65,438+05, I found it difficult to swim, so I gave up swimming. When you meet someone you like at the age of 65,438+08, you have to say "I can't". 18 years old, found English difficult and gave up English. At the age of 28, I have a great job and need English, so you have to say "I can't". The more troublesome you are at the beginning of your life, the lazier you are at studying. The later you go, the more likely you are to miss people and things that interest you and miss new scenery. "
I don't want to suffer from learning, but I can only suffer from life.
After several years, in different living conditions, successful people thank their efforts; There are also frustrated people who regret not being hard on themselves.
Our inner conflict says: not only children are plastic, but everyone has the ability to change themselves, or even completely transform themselves.
Anyone has the ability to change himself, only to see if he is willing to change.
But the best choice is to study when you should study and fall in love when you should fall in love; Suffer when you should, and enjoy when you should.
Reading has the advantages of reading, and labor can earn money. The old man said there was gold in the book, four of us. I'm the boss, and all three of us work hard and don't want to study. We were not short of money when we were at school. I really don't want to work, and I don't take money too seriously, so I haven't made any money in my life, but everything has a fair side and the society is developing rapidly. The internet is not like this. My two sisters and one brother can't keep up with their studies.
In life, it is natural to eat the bitterness of life. As long as people are not idle (good health, no disability, one catty and a half meters is not a problem, no matter what coolies, of course, nothing happens, and the task will be completed soon.
Reading is a bottomless job, unlike other industries. Of course, it is impossible for everyone to make achievements in reading and learning. It was destiny, good character, spiritual ancestors, graves and fields, so he was born a scholar. It seems that in ancient times, Mr Liu Bowen knew the fate of genius 500 years ago and 500 years later. Therefore, some people should be willing to eat the bitterness of life, not the bitterness of reading.
After I can't bear the pain of studying, I have no choice but to work hard to maintain myself. What I want to do on the road of life is to supply me with positive energy.
A poor man said to a self-taught entrepreneur:
"I really admire your hard-working spirit. Study at night and do business during the day. Why do you have to suffer like this? "
The entrepreneur replied, "Actually, I admire you more. You would rather suffer all your life than study hard for a while and enjoy happiness in the future. "
This story tells us that,
The difference between suffering in life and reading and eating is not whether it can be bitter, but whether it is meaningful and valuable!
Reading does not necessarily bring a valuable and meaningful life. But if you don't study and don't study, life is meaningless!
Reading may not help you get rid of the suffering in life, but not reading will definitely make you suffer in life!
Reading is mostly mental pain, while people who don't study are mostly physical pain.
Now is the era of knowledge economy, and the era of getting rich by speculation has passed.
Many knowledgeable young people have embarked on the road of starting their own businesses and achieved success.
And those young people who don't study or study will feel that they can suffer a lot. Why do they still have no money? Why is there no decent and easy job? Why not be respected by others?
The cruelest thing in this world is that others can be more successful than you without suffering so much!
Eat because life is bitter; You can choose not to suffer from reading.
In the final analysis, it is a question of "selectivity".
0 1 Everyone wants to live, but not everyone wants to study.
Whether you go to school or not, you have to live, earn money and support your family. Therefore, you cannot escape the bitterness of life.
Even if you are worth over 100 million yuan, you will have troubles every day. Even if you beg in the street, you will be sad every day.
Life will not give you pressure because of your identity, status or wealth. No one can escape the pressure of life.
But reading is not. Why do some people choose to drop out of junior high school? Because they don't want to study, they have the right to choose. I can read or not.
It's like, you have several jobs in front of you and you have a choice. You can choose the first job and give up the second. You can also choose a second job and give up the first one.
However, you have to work, because if you don't work, you can't make money and you can't live. This is the essence of this problem.
The bitterness of life is real, and the bitterness of reading is invisible and intangible.
For example, if you don't make money today, you may have no food tomorrow, and your rent and mortgage will not be paid. Life is bitter, and feedback is timely. Therefore, under the pressure of life, people have to bear the hardships of life every day.
But reading is not like this. Reading a book today may not change in a year, or it may change. This uncertainty and this sense of delay in feedback are puzzling.
Therefore, people like to pursue certain things, and they are often unwilling to take the first step, even less willing to take risks.
But from my experience, when you bear the pain of reading, you will find that life is actually not that hard.
The bitterness of life is passive, and the bitterness of learning is active.
I can't live a hard life. It will find you and you don't have to look for it, so it's easy.
The bitterness of learning is selective. You can study or not, but most people choose the latter.
The bitterness of life is mechanical, and the bitterness of learning is variable.
Some jobs well explain the bitterness of life, such as delivery, express delivery, coolies, drivers and so on. These are very simple mechanical tasks, just repetitive muscle memory. If you have suffered too much in your study, you will have more choices, your work will be very changeable and will bring you surprises.
The bitterness of life is downhill, and the bitterness of learning is uphill.
Downhill is effortless, uphill requires perseverance and determination. The hardships of study will make you full of hope for the future and confidence in life.
In fact, it is still because of old ideas and low knowledge.
Rather than saying "I would rather eat the bitterness of life than study", it is better to say that some people don't understand that life is more bitter than studying. When they were young, they didn't want to study. When faced with difficulties in life, they wanted to study, but they couldn't get it.
An authoritative international investigation agency once conducted a global sampling survey, the theme of which was what people regret most in their lives. Results 92% people chose "not working hard enough when they were young". In addition to hard work, efforts in youth should start with reading.
Reading is not an easy task.
Although some scholars advocate "happy learning", realistically speaking, although reading will be happy, reading itself is not an easy task.
From childhood to adulthood, a person has to receive an education process of about 20 years on average. During this 20-year-long process, I have to be bound by various disciplines in the school, taught by more than a dozen courses, taught by teachers with different styles, trapped by mountains and rivers, trapped by wave after wave of exams, constantly changing myself, correcting the track, and facing the brutal killing of the senior high school entrance examination and the college entrance examination, in order to fight my way out. This process is very difficult and sometimes painful. So it's called "learning the sea is endless."
Life is more bitter than reading.
Compared with the hardships of reading, the difficulties of life are much colder, more sinister and more cruel. Once you step into the society, you are an independent individual. You have to bear the obligations to your parents, your wife, your children and the society, earn money to support your family and take responsibility. There is an interesting saying, "In the world of adults, nothing is easy except getting fat easily." That's true. I can't support my family. My wife and children may have followed others, too. No professional skills, no technology, no brain power, only physical strength, only some jobs that require a strong labor force. We have seen the hardships of porters, coal miners and construction workers, which are unimaginable for ordinary people. Looking back and comparing reading, reading efforts are just the tip of the iceberg and nine Niu Yi hairs.
Reading is a career that is bitter before sweet.
Once upon a time, we were all taught to be "bitter first, then sweet", that is, eat the bitterness first, and the bitterness will come to an end. In fact, reading is such a profession. Although the process of reading is very hard, we are constantly gaining and growing in the process of reading, and our ability is constantly getting stronger. A person who reads well, practices skills well and learns thoroughly will naturally be competitive, have the right to speak, have authority and status, and will be comfortable and handy in the face of any challenge in life. With a little self-effort, wealth and income will roll in. It's like robbing the grass of reading and beating the rabbit of wealth.
Many people always regret that they didn't study hard when they were young when facing difficulties and setbacks in life. I realized the importance of reading knowledge, but when I really saw the suffering of life, I had no time and experience to learn and improve myself. Therefore, I have always believed that in the adult world, it is very happy to take time out to study, and it is even more luxurious and difficult to participate in study systematically and full-time, which should be cherished.
A person's life is a long-distance race. It's never too late to study. There are always people who didn't read a good book when they were young, but they suddenly woke up in adulthood, turned around and studied hard, still changed their destiny and regained the initiative in life. There are always people around us who work harder and have more momentum than we do. There are countless examples of this.
Reading is beneficial, but it is rewarding. Once you pick up a book, you will gain something.
Study hard from now on! It is not too late.
Some people would rather eat the bitterness of life than study, and find it difficult to study.
Is it difficult to study or to live?
1. A child refused to listen to his parents to study. When I grew up, I went to the society and suffered all kinds of hardships. Did he blame his parents? He said he didn't complain. I chose the road and drank the blood myself.
Studying, no matter whether it is bitter or not, then your parents, as experienced people, show you a bright way. As long as you know your parents' hearts, you don't have to go. When you enter the society, no matter how miserable and hungry you are, no one will feel sorry for you, and there is no turning back, no matter how hard your life is. You can choose whether to study or not, but you can't choose whether to eat or not.
2. Reading is a child's pain.
Only children find reading hard. He sits there for hours every day, facing a pile of books, and feels that life is really boring. He didn't listen carefully to what his parents said. He felt that his parents were hurting him. He evaded suffering.
He can choose to study when he was a child, but he can't choose life when he grows up. The bitter life made him understand the wishes of his former parents.
Children who grow up are always asked, is it better to study or work? He bears the burden left by life and can't back down. In fact, he has given up in his heart.
3. Reading is a way to pave the way for life, which is hard and comfortable.
Reading is an investment and an investment in life.
Reading is paving the way, not paving the way for yourself.
But I always feel reluctant to invest, and I always feel that paving the road is too tired and I can't stand the pain.
If you are lazy about life, you will be punished by life-if you don't want to suffer from reading, you will suffer from life.
Those who are willing to suffer from reading must be stronger than those who would rather suffer from life. First of all, some people don't know why they have to suffer from life. The reason is not reading, or reading less, limited knowledge. Those who are willing to study hard are reluctant to part with it. In today's world, this is not a big deal for people who have a hard life. A master supports everything, and the burden at home is his wife, children and parents. Like the hard work of a courier. It is said that it costs two yuan to send a piece of goods, and a street can earn more than 20 yuan at once, but the time it takes to walk this street does not necessarily mean that you can directly study for more than 20 yuan. If you have a regular job in a factory, it doesn't matter if you are a little hard or bored. Listen to your boss and get on well with your colleagues, and you can survive. If the welfare of the unit is good, not to mention, and the unit has bought four or five insurances for employees, the state will pay for insurance. To what extent will you suffer? Limited! Why do I say: the pain of eating and reading is beyond the average person's endurance? According to incomplete statistics, seven or eight out of ten doctoral students in universities are children from ordinary families or rural families. Because the family is poor or their parents have nothing left for them, at first they just struggled for themselves and studied for others. With the accumulation of knowledge, they gradually tasted the benefits of reading and understood many reasons and missions of reading. Reading can really change the fate of life, and more importantly, shoulder the fate of the country and the nation. But this pain is not a day or two, a year or two, or ten or twenty years, or even a lifetime of study. In the end, they will definitely make contributions to society and gain the respect of society and the country. They are willing to study hard. When my husband released his solo album at the age of 90, I just couldn't stand reading Chinese, so I stopped talking about the content. Later, when we gave the picture album as a souvenir to the famous college students at home, it was almost the same as the top student in the college entrance examination, but it was interlaced like a mountain. He said modestly, that's the book Wen Quxing read in the sky. In 20 14, my husband's female disciple (with a broadsword) presented a book they just translated, DUKES, 12 edition, with a total of 787 pages. Now every time I see this book, my heart is very painful. It is said that for a while, they couldn't go to bed until two or three o'clock the next morning. Is this selfless work spirit possessed by ordinary people? Personally, scholars are diligent, wise and creators. They are not eager for quick success and instant benefit, and are willing to sit on the bench. They study for the people and the country. And those who are willing to live a hard life are only good for their personal and family lives, so the burden is light and they don't need to suffer for learning. 15 representatives of China * * production party are all scholars. They understand a lot of truth through reading, so they study for the nation, for the mission and for the rejuvenation of China. The same is true of people who are willing to suffer a lot now: they don't study for their own interests!