First of all, a woman can abandon her three children, which is not just a woman's problem. Women are homesick for their children. When there are family conflicts, most women endure it for their children. Men have a little hope, and women will not abandon their children when they leave. In this case, men can only earn more money by suffering and bringing up their three children, but they should be educated well, without any negative influence on them or bad hobbies. If you love children, they will grow up normally in the past hard years, and you will be happier than their mother. I just read an article the other day. A child killed his grandmother because his mother left his father and son. His father always blames his grandmother for negative things, which makes the children dislike his grandmother. Children receive too much negative energy, which harms them. I hope you can educate your children well, let them grow up physically and mentally in a life without maternal love, and your fate will not be bad for the rest of your life.
If I were you, I would report the case first, whether it helps or not. You must report eloping with someone, and it will be evidence after leaving a criminal record. Since she ran away, you can't get it back, and everyone can't live on the earth. How should I live? Ask a nanny to take care of the children's diet with the money spent on her every month. Our city is usually three or four thousand yuan a month, and my parents will take care of it for me. I will work with peace of mind and live as usual. But I hope you have a good life, don't come back, and don't let me see you, otherwise the heavenly king Lao Tzu can't save you. As for my father-in-law, I will tell them that your daughter has cuckolded me, but my father-in-law has not. Your home is very cool, and then you can't run away without using ink. If you don't care about Lao Tzu, I'll take care of you first, tell your daughter to hide, and break her leg if she dares to come back. Pay the money on time every month, or someone will break your leg. Your daughter makes me a turtle, makes me timid, and I make you more timid. Well, it's quite good, echoing my character, and always fighting violence with violence, fighting violence with violence. Of course, my wife is very kind to me, so I spoil her very much.
I really want to be a heartless woman, but I can't stand this character. The daughter is twelve years old and the youngest son is six and a half years old. A divorced woman who doesn't go out is so helpless, annoying and depressed. I really want to disappear into this house at once. My ex-husband grabbed me and kept telling me to go to hell and get out, saying that my feet were on me and no one stopped me. I heard Xiangxiang is nearby. By saying my last name, I mean I didn't leave because my child was young. When I left, I felt sorry for my mother. If you are older, you will be able to take care of yourself in three or four years. I have to end this life. A woman who spent thirteen years of her youth getting a piece of paper is not worth it at all. It's pathetic and exasperating. Many people will say, who told you to stay here and ask for it?
My daughter-in-law left on the evening of August 17, alone or with someone. Someone must have taken her away. The phone was still on. When I went to a construction site in Hangzhou to cook, the phone WeChat was hacked, leaving two children. The reason why children cry every day is that they quarreled with their father. Now some people say that they have engaged in pyramid schemes in Xiamen. I don't know if it's true or not. There is an 84-year-old man at home and two children who are going to school soon.
Seeing you ask such a question, I'm sure you are in a daze now.
It can be seen from here that you are usually an indecisive person.
Now that your wife has run away with someone, you should calm down, let parents take good care of their children, work hard, and put their children's study and study first.
Think about what your strengths are and use them to support your family.
Don't be afraid if you don't have any special skills. You can work as a mason with others near your hometown, or paint walls to scrape dust, or install water and electricity.
The simplest thing is to install water and electricity.
Although these jobs are very hard and tiring, the income is still very high. I am surrounded by my peers who do these jobs. I am born after 80.
Now you have no choice but to grit your teeth.
You can try to write online novels when you are free. Maybe this is also a way.
One day, if you turn over, your wife will confidently tell her when she comes back:
If you don't accompany me at sunset,
Make a comeback. Who are you?
I have the best right to answer this question. Like you, she ran away with someone else. I have three children, all of whom are at school. Don't say that there is a problem between men and women when this problem arises. She and I just manage the shop and do nothing, including washing clothes, cooking and taking care of the children. Nothing is lacking. There are three houses, two shops and a car. My conclusion is that fate is exhausted and the eight characters are doomed. Really, otherwise no one would.
I may and intend to die (painlessly), or be a bachelor all my life. After that, I took care of the elderly ... it was more painful than death ... I also spent the Spring Festival in pain, and I also encountered extremely sad and painful problems. She also has a son. After agreeing to get married, I don't care, but his ex-husband and their family care, and I care as much as I want ... At first, my family and I didn't want to, and neither did she. Let me feel deeply, or possessed. I got into a bad fight with my family and was soon coaxed into getting engaged to her. But at the critical moment, the woman suddenly changed her temperament, didn't get along well, and put forward various excessive demands. If you can't meet her requirements, break up, especially the financial requirements, and let my parents accept her son immediately according to her requirements. Now people probably estimate that I can't meet her requirements, especially the financial requirements have been divided. But I'm still immersed in the love she gave me before, and I can't let it go, as if I suddenly fell from heaven to hell, with a little less pain, but I still can't bear it ... Over and over again ... I lived in hot water, despair, fear and anxiety almost all day ... Later, I shut myself in a closed space, lived in seclusion almost all day, and didn't want to talk to others ... Life is worse than death ... especially when I wake up from my sleep, it's so uncomfortable ... I can't face my normal work life and the days after I suddenly lost it ... My feelings that I can't let go are going to collapse ... Sometimes doing something I like can ease my exercise, but it will be repeated, and the cycle of repetition will get longer and longer ... She is the kind of woman who still loves her to death today and will break up tomorrow because she gives less money .. As long as she gets along well and can continue this relationship that I can't let go, I am willing to take on her son to some extent (but it may not meet her requirements. She has been making trouble without reason, and asked me to buy a new hardcover room for the last time when my family already has two suites of nearly 300 square meters. Let me stop suffering. Will I die in loneliness, fear and despair? If only I could be euthanized happily ... there would be no pain. ...