1, Buddha said that it is difficult for couples who are too good to grow old together. Generally, such couples will be seriously ill or die young. Everything in the world follows the principle of conservation of energy.
2, the general feelings come and go quickly, such as the days of puppy love are not easy, this is because you enjoy the blessing of love in advance, it is difficult to stand at first sight, because the skyrocketing feelings will definitely plummet.
Therefore, if two people want to be long-term, they must understand this truth. Too warm feelings will eventually dissipate, but that kind of plain feelings is the best. If you like each other, don't spoil them too much Half sugar is the best life.
Second, which party is widowed?
It's possible for both sides.
1, widowed people, generally because of the collision of two lives, one side restrained the accident caused by the other.
2. But in real life, if a husband and wife really love each other, it is actually the most painful for the living party, so a widowed person is the worst life.
3. Another situation is that one of the two couples died just because the family conditions were good in all aspects, but the other immediately integrated into the new family and began a happy life. Then this is a bad life.
Of course, some people's lives are really bad for their spouses, so we must pay attention to:
(1) Everything went well.
The "Wang Zhuan" here refers to the pattern of "from printing to robbery" in the eight characters, or the special pattern of "Runxia Pavilion, Yanshang Pavilion, Quzhi Pavilion, Congge Pavilion, Jiafen Pavilion and Kui Gang Pavilion". People with this eight-character pattern, both men and women, will be very considerate of their partners.
(2) Everything turns into gas.
There are three results in gasification. First, the gas is transformed into deification by drying in the sun; Second, financial officials turn gas into god; Third, the two are combined into deification. The transformation of financial officials into gods in the eight characters is originally the transformation of spouse's gender, shape and quality into other things, which belongs to the sacrifice made by spouse and is naturally the feature of spouse's early death. Even if the weather is dry, it is easy to encounter the luck of changing the gas, and the financial officer is upside down.
(3) Everything is in line with the situation.
Regardless of men and women, the eight characters drift with the tide, regardless of wealth, children and official career, it is easy to hinder the surrounding six relatives. But the unfavorable spouses are mainly women who obey their children and men who obey officials. Because a woman's life hurts her husband, it will definitely hinder her husband, usually in her husband's healthy and prosperous years; The more serious the male is superior to the female, the more serious the official kills the thief and leaks money, and it will also harm the wife.