Little sister has big watery eyes and a sweet smile. Who knew she was depressed?
When she was young, she was seduced by a respected teacher and tortured her all her life, so that she sought a relief in such an extreme way. According to his own personal experience, he wrote Fang Siqi's First Love Paradise, a story about "a girl falls in love with a seducer".
I watched the video of Miss Sister's last interview before her death, and it was really distressing to watch her forbearance. There was a passage that moved me particularly. She said, "Primo Levi once said,' concentration camps are the biggest massacre in human history', but she wanted to say," No, the biggest massacre in human history was Fang Siqi's rape. And when she wrote this book, she was "very sure that this kind of thing will continue to happen, not to mention the whole world and Taiwan Province Province, and it is happening now. "
Yes, although everyone is saying that it is a peaceful time and China is very safe, the truth is that things like this can happen anytime and anywhere. Don't talk about girls, rapists are perverts, girls and old ladies are not immune, and men are not immune. There are many such things, so many that you can see them every day when you watch the news, so many that you can see thousands of entries in Baidu at a time, and so many can happen around you.
According to the data of the Ministry of Health and Welfare of Taiwan Province Province, about 8 100 people were sexually assaulted in Taiwan Province Province in just 20 16 years. More than 80% of the victims are women, and half of the victims are minors.
I still remember when I was in primary school, a male music teacher who taught me liked to touch the head of a female classmate every class. As a result, a second-grade girl in the next class was raped and brought to the police station, which was broadcast on our county TV station. I don't know what happened to this girl, but I think she must have had a hard time. Chastity is more important than anything to most little girls. In that flower season, I wanted to give myself as a gift to someone like Prince Charming, instead of being almost brutally swallowed up by an animal as it is now. The most terrible thing is not being defiled by animals, but being defiled by animals in prince's coat. Fang Siqi, namely Lin, respects and loves her teacher, but watches her do some animal behaviors. This kind of heartache, like the belief that I once firmly believed, once regarded what I loved as a treasure and was broken. This is the heaviest question about whether there is truth, goodness and beauty in the world.
Lady gaga once sang a song with the theme of sexual assault until it happened to you at the 88th Academy Awards, and admitted that she was sexually assaulted every day in high school. She felt terrible and sad. That's a music producer. For a long time, she lived like an empty shell because of the blow. "I have experienced some terrible things, but now I can laugh it off because I have experienced many physical, psychological and emotional treatments in recent years."
This song is the theme song of the documentary Hunting Field. The title of this film doesn't sound special, but in fact, the event it focuses on is 10 thousand times more cruel than bloody hunting: sexual assault on campus.
The film recorded many teenagers who were sexually abused on campus. They bravely stood up and told their own stories, used their personal experiences to win the attention of the government and society, and called on everyone to join hands to resist sexual assault.
How much courage does it take to tell your own sexual assault experience? People who have never experienced sexual assault will never feel such pain. Physical torture is instantaneous. At that moment, you got the greatest and ultimate pain, and it disappeared. However, mental torture is permanent and it will haunt the victim's life like a snake. Even if the wound heals and the scar disappears, the mental wound can't be repaired. The victims in the film are real warriors who dare to tear their scars and blood to others. There is no reason, just for fewer victims in the world. They are all kind people. I only hope that in the days to come, their hearts will be stronger than the average person and their fate will be better for them. I sympathize with everyone who has been hurt by sexual assault.
Many people don't like watching these negative things. First of all, they affect their mood. Second, it is too far away from yourself. But whether you watch it or not, this will always happen in the world. Indifference is the most terrible thing in the world. Nobody cares, nobody cares, nobody cares. Did it ever occur to you that maybe the victim is with you, and maybe you will be the next victim?
When I typed these words, I felt particularly heartbroken and remembered what my sister had asked me. She asked, "Why are there more terrible things in the world when you grow up? Why are people getting worse? Why is the world getting darker and darker? "
I answered her at that time: "It's not that the world has gone bad. There will always be darkness, but there will always be light. You find that the world is getting darker and darker because you have grown up. The child is simple and knows nothing. They used to be dark, but you didn't know it. What's more, with the development of communication technology, information dissemination is getting faster and faster. "
At that time, I just wanted to comfort her. I always believed that although the world is dark, there is light, just like my favorite sentence, "If you hate darkness, please be the light you want." Although my words didn't convince her at that time, the debate ended in discord.
But it is undeniable that the world we see seems to be getting worse and worse. What the hell happened to our world? I thought about it for a long time. Is there any way to make the ugliness in the world disappear? The answer is pessimistic. "There are two things in the world that you can't look directly at. One is the sun and the other is the human heart." As long as there are people, ugliness will always exist, and there is no way to change human nature.
But we can make these phenomena happen less. The first step is to protect yourself and strengthen safety awareness. The second step is to pay more attention to such social events and give voice to the victims. You know, many netizens are standing and talking like it's easy.
"Being raped is not because you are coquettish." "Who told her to wear so little clothes?" "She was fucked by others, so disgusting." For this kind of person, I really want to sincerely greet his family.
Although we can't change the world, we should not be changed by it. Believe that justice is never absent, and light will always come. Embrace the injured you and say goodbye to the past bravely. You are not alone, there are a group of people just like you behind you. Embrace you who grew up safely, protect yourself, protect the people around you, care for the victims, and don't be someone you hate. Those who have hurt others hope that you can spend the rest of your life atoning for them. When you destroy others, you are also destroying yourself.