Every time I go on a blind date, I always end up failing. How can I find the reason within myself?

Some men and women have been in and out of the dating industry, but they have never met anyone they are satisfied with. Why do some people always fail in blind dates, while others succeed every time? If you are a person who has failed on many blind dates, you really have to look for problems within yourself. Let’s take a look at the common reasons why people fail on blind dates. I always say I don’t feel anything, but after meeting, there’s nothing down there. In all likelihood, they all died here, and the turtle and mung bean never met. There are too many words about not feeling, and there are many strange reasons, such as being too fat and too thin, short-sighted, poor figure, airport, acne, single eyelids, less hair loss, walking with splayed inside and outside, walking with legs too far apart, looking like a woman , sissy, sloppily dressed but still eloquent

Excessive enthusiasm and strong purpose. It is undeniable that many people choose blind dates because they are eager to get rid of being single. But I warn you, don’t be too eager to write it on your face, state your purpose straight to the point, or be overly attentive to the other party. Your excessive enthusiasm will scare the other person away and make the other person think that you are a terrifying marriage maniac. It is true that some boys and girls reject blind dates. They feel that the vegetables in the market are picked by others at the stalls, so they are quite disgusted. However, sometimes they are helpless under the coercion and induction of their parents and can only face them shamelessly. However, this situation does seem a bit disrespectful to the other party.

There are indeed people around me who feel that blind dates are cheap and will not go to any place recommended by their parents, leaving them half-dead. Forget it if you don’t go. If you can find it yourself, you just can't find it. The circle is narrow, and I commute to work at 2.1pm every day. You want to find someone to marry until the end of the year, so you despise it. Dating is just one way to meet people. Let’s not mix too much other stuff into it. What rotten cabbage is on sale? Don't think so. Just think of it as meeting a new friend and making contact. Maybe one day you'll see the opposite eye, right?

Contrary to the above situation, there is also a group of people who are too rigid and unable to let go, and do not know how to express their advantages at all. The whole date was just a mechanical question and answer session, no fun at all. This depressing atmosphere makes the other person just want to end the date as soon as possible. Caution is the number one killer of blind dates. Cherish every blind date opportunity. It is not a good habit to get into the habit of making preconceptions, getting into corners, and prejudging a blind date. Don't worry too much about first impressions, and don't let a bad first impression put you off the entire date. It's too early to tell. Give the other person and yourself a chance to get to know each other better.

Men and women are two different animals. Women are naturally maternal, loving, gentle and considerate, while men are mostly carefree. Gentlemen are good and polite, but it only means that they are well versed in female psychology. It does not mean that they are excellent in other aspects such as character and quality. Careless men are not good, but it does not mean that they are not good in other aspects of character and quality. good.