On October 19, 2012, the well-known blogger "Eight Shopkeepers" suddenly posted an article online and broke the news:
"This has been happening for a long time. Dong Jie and Pan Yueming broke up. Dong Jie and her children have been away from home for a long time. According to Pan Yueming, Dong Jie has a new love. The former golden girl has now broken up."
As soon as the news came out, it immediately caused a stir on the Internet.
Angrily denounced Pan Yueming for deliberately smearing him for personal gain, and claimed that Pan Yueming was addicted to gambling and was rude and rude, which eventually led to the two breaking up.
At this time, Pan Yueming felt as if he was facing a formidable enemy, the sky was dark and the earth was dark, and the overwhelming curses came one after another, causing him to suffer great physical and mental damage.
Pan Yueming never thought that the woman he was closest to in the past would use such despicable means to destroy himself. He was heartbroken, and he regretted it even more, but he knew better that he could not sit still and wait for death!
Shortly afterwards, Pan Yueming issued a lawyer's letter angrily accusing Dong Jie of defamation and sued Dong Jie's team.
At this point, the marriage of Pan Yueming and Dong Jie came to an imperfect end.
There are many cases of celebrities getting divorced and turning against each other, but situations like theirs are rare. This time they broke up with each other, not only destroying each other, but also destroying themselves.
However, 10 years have passed, and the life changes of Pan Yueming and Dong Jie, the former couple, have been completely different.
"If God wants to make him perish, he must first make him crazy."
In August 2005, Pan Yueming and Dong Jie became acquainted when they collaborated on "Red Clothes House". The person became what everyone recognized as the "golden boy."
Talking about this relationship, Pan Yueming once said bluntly: "Dong Jie was deceived by me because she was too innocent."
But in fact, everyone knows that Pan Yueming is very fond of Dong Jie. It was love at first sight. Dong Jie was very nervous when the two worked together for the first time, so Pan Yueming was like a teacher, enlightening and caring for her, and even bought breakfast for Dong Jie.
Later in the interview, Dong Jie recalled this experience and said with a smile: I fell in love because of a fried dough stick.
However, this relationship had some twists and turns at the beginning. At that time, Dong Jie had the image of an "innocent girl", and her agency also urged not to make the relationship public, so for a long time, the outside world Thought they broke up.
It wasn’t until two years later that everything came to light.
In January 2018, Dong Jie went to Hong Kong to film "Dragon and Tiger Gate". Later, Pan Yueming went to visit the cast, and the relationship was subsequently made public.
After receiving the exact news, many netizens cast envious glances. The golden boy and girl on the screen became a real couple.
The most unexpected thing is that Pan Yueming found a suitable opportunity to propose to Dong Jie.
According to Pan Yueming's own revelations, at that time, he was only wearing shorts and a vest, which was very informal. But when he took out the engagement ring, Dong Jie agreed without hesitation.
After the successful proposal, marriage followed. On September 26, 2008, Dong Jie and Pan Yueming held a wedding ceremony in Beijing.
It is said that this wedding was mainly organized by Dong Jie, while Pan Yueming had been busy filming and had no time at all. He did not rush back until the eve of the wedding, so this wedding was very low-key and only invited Very few relatives and friends attended.
Looking back now, they got married too hastily, but there was actually no other way, because Dong Jie was already pregnant before they got married. If they didn't get married, the good news might turn into a scandal.
Pan Yueming is on the rise in his career and has no time to care about it. On the contrary, he thinks this is good, because as long as two people truly love each other, nothing else matters.
On February 5, 2009, Dong Jie gave birth to a son, nicknamed "Dingding".
Originally, according to Dong Jie’s plan, she would lose weight immediately after her confinement and return to the entertainment industry, but unfortunately an accident happened.
When Pan Yueming was filming the movie "Come for You", he had a car accident. Several ribs were broken and a mouthful of blood spurted out of his mouth. He was notified of critical illness.
At that time, after Dong Jie learned about it, she saw the dying Pan Yueming in the hospital and her tears could not stop flowing down. Fortunately, Pan Yueming was very lucky and escaped the clutches of death and saved his own life.
During the period of hospitalization, Dong Jie took care of her every day, cooked every day, and was always by Pan Yueming's side. This made Pan Yueming grateful to this woman from the bottom of his heart.
Perhaps because of this friendship, Pan Yueming has been reluctant to reveal Dong Jie's true face, but he did not expect that the other party did not take it seriously.
Because he has experienced life and death, Pan Yueming cherishes this marriage even more. After recovering, he not only introduced various resources to Dong Jie, but also opened a Weibo account specifically for her. The first content was to wish her good luck. Dong Jie's new drama is finished!
From a golden boy to a model couple, the story of Pan Yueming and Dong Jie moved many netizens, and everyone envied their relationship.
However, life is sometimes like this. The more complete and perfect you are, the easier it is for problems to arise.
On October 19, 2012, a well-known blogger broke the news, directly revealing the truth about Pan Yueming and Dong Jie’s marriage.
This revelation immediately caused an uproar on the Internet, and many netizens began to dig into the clues of the two's divorce. Some people said that Pan Yueming's cheating partner was Li Xi'er, and there were even rumors on the Internet that Dong Jie had a relationship with Tony Leung.
For a time, everyone on the Internet was discussing the breakup rumors of Pan Yueming and Dong Jie, but who was the real betrayer was still a mystery to everyone.
Who would have thought that actor Wang Dazhi, who had worked with Dong Jie, jumped out at this critical moment and publicly posted a message to support Dong Jie. He wrote:
"Marriage, divorce, a One is love, the other is sadness! Teacher Dong, as friends, we will support you, and the people of Shaanxi support you!”
Looking back now, I really admire Wang Dazhi, and even met Dong Jie in private. He dared to publicly challenge him. Although this person was not good-looking, he had a really good mentality.
But Wang Dazhi never dreamed that he had already been targeted.
After Wang Dazhi posted an article in support of Dong Jie, the blogger "Eight Shopkeepers" quickly broke the news again, pointing the finger at Wang Dazhi:
"Since you have already taken the initiative to jump in When you come out, the shopkeeper will take you out for a walk. You two have been well for a long time. If you are a man, just admit it boldly."
As soon as these words came out, everyone was shocked. It turned out that Dong Jie's new love was. It's Wang Dazhi. Many netizens expressed their difficulty in accepting such a thing.
Some people even joked: "I would rather Pan Yueming and Wang Dazhi be together than see Dong Jie with Wang Dazhi."
At this point, Wang Dazhi no longer dared to speak. , seeing things getting worse, Dong Jie finally couldn't help but take action.
Dong Jie’s scandal with Tony Leung and Wang Dazhi was maliciously hyped by Pan Yueming. The reason for their breakup was that Pan Yueming was addicted to gambling and was rude and unreasonable.
As soon as these words came out, Dong Jie seemed to have released a time bomb that had been buried for a long time, directly tearing her relationship with Pan Yueming to pieces.
At this point, netizens were convinced. In an instant, they pointed all the fingers at Pan Yueming, verbally abusing, complaining, attacking, and using all kinds of unpleasant words.
Such a result was not what Pan Yueming wanted, but when it came to this, he had no choice but to respond.
But who would have thought that the result would not be an apology from Pan Yueming, but a counterattack.
First of all, Pan Yueming denied being "addicted to gambling" and "repaying gambling debts" and angrily denounced this as a fabrication and malicious slander. At the same time, he asked Dong Jiefang to produce the arrears and repayment documents.
Secondly, Pan Yueming denied setting up a trap to frame Dong Jie. As for the online revelations about Dong Jie, Pan Yueming said that it had nothing to do with him.
Third, sue Dong Jie’s manager Ren Jiaying, accusing him of framing and destroying his family.
Finally, Pan Yueming also expressed his attitude towards Dong Jie, and he has a clear conscience towards her, because he loves his children and this family!
The matter is not over yet. In an interview, Dong Jie's agent continued to reveal that "Pan Yueming refused to let his son in in order to occupy an apartment worth 40 million yuan."
But the news is a news, and there is no evidence after all.
Everyone knows the final result of this marriage, and no one emerged as the winner.
Pan Yueming’s case against Dong Jie’s manager Ren Jiaying was delayed until May 2014 before the result was announced. Although Pan Yueming won the case in the end, Ren Jiaying did not publicly apologize to him.
For Pan Yueming, whether to apologize or not is no longer the most important thing, because some things have become a foregone conclusion.
Pan Yueming was aggrieved for the marriage incident, but he lost a valuable golden period of career development. In the two years of the entertainment industry, everything is changing rapidly, and no one will wait for anyone.
As for Dong Jie, there is no need to say more. I thought she would gain sympathy, but in the end she slapped herself in the face.
Because someone released a blurry video of her and Wang Dazhi kissing in a B&B in Haikou, which confirmed the rumors that she cheated on Wang Dazhi.
Regarding these revelations, Dong Jie became speechless. From 2012 to 2013, Dong Jie seemed to have disappeared, and there was no trace of her at all.
Although I have been hiding from everyone, the Internet has memory, and there will always be people who will clearly remember the things I have done.
After the divorce, when I saw Dong Jie again, it was already in 2014's "Beauty as a Picturesque". Unexpectedly, she actually got the lead heroine of the show.
Although this drama has been criticized a lot by the audience, it does not affect Dong Jie's continued advancement in the entertainment industry.
As for Pan Yueming, it was a bit miserable. He missed his golden period and could not find a suitable position when he returned to the screen.
In 2013, Pan Yueming made the film debuts of three directors in succession, and the results were all mediocre. Later, I set up my own studio, which was a lot of fuss.
It was not until 2017 that Pan Yueming regained his former self with the web drama "White Night".
Facts have also proved that setbacks did not defeat Pan Yueming, but only made him more mature and charming.
After "White Nights" became popular, Pan Yueming ushered in the second spring of his career. He signed 5 ghost-blowing film and television dramas at once, from "Nu Qingxiang Xiangxi" to "Longling Mysterious Cave" In "Yunnan Worm Valley", Pan Yueming became the perfect Hu Bayi in everyone's mind.
For Pan Yueming now, the steady development of his career is no longer a big problem. As for life, he also has a different state of mind.
Looking at his personal social account, you will find that he is more diligent than anyone else. He updates a piece of content almost every day to share his daily life with his fans.
For example, what delicious food you eat every day, where you go and what scenery you see, and funny and interesting things. He will post it online without reservation.
The most noteworthy thing is his painting, which he paints every day, and it can be seen that he is very skilled, which has inspired many netizens to paint with Pan Yueming.
For Pan Yueming, painting is a way to kill time and a hobby, but it may also improve his mood.
Once you have experienced everything that you should experience in life, then the remaining days are about facing it calmly.
As for Dong Jie, although she has released some works every year in recent years, she is no longer what she used to be and her popularity is not as good as before. It is undeniable that she has good resources and can get one or two works every year. A drama with a big heroine.
But for an actress, the older she gets, the less valuable she is. Now, in her 40s, she can only play other people's mothers.
Opening Dong Jie's personal social account and comparing it with Pan Yueming, the gap is too obvious. Apart from some normal work promotions, it is rare to see her daily life.
However, April 19th coincided with Dong Jie’s 42nd birthday, and it was rare to see her take a video.
In the video, Dong Jie lamented that she was getting older and had acne marks on her face. Regarding this embarrassing age, Dong Jie said that she did not want to give up and wanted to continue working hard to meet the future in her best condition.
I haven’t seen her for a long time, and when I saw her again, I found that she was really old, with more wrinkles at the corners of her eyes and fatter cheeks. She really had a feeling that time was not forgiving. Compared with the image of a beautiful girl back then, The gap is not generally large.
As the old saying goes, people are doing it, and God is watching.
In this marriage, who is the final winner? The difference of changes in 10 years has already given the answer.
However, if time goes back and those things did not happen, would Pan Yueming and Dong Jie be in a different situation?
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Text丨Anonymous Editor丨Siyue