Although many people compare Lu Xiaoman with Lin, the problem is that even without Xu Zhimo and Liang Sicheng, Lin's position and contribution in the history of ancient buildings in China is enough to keep her in history. Then Lu Xiaoman, without Xu Zhimo, is probably a passer-by.
Of course, I didn't mean to belittle Lu Xiaoman, but what Lu Xiaoman did was criticized.
At first, under the arrangement of parents, Lu Xiaoman married Wang Geng, deputy commander of Beiyang Army's Ministry of Communications. This year, Lu Xiaoman 19 years old. Although it is an arranged marriage, the life of the two people is still sweet after marriage, but after the passion fades, the contradictions in personality gradually appear and they often quarrel.
Three years later, Wang Geng was transferred to Harbin Public Security Bureau, and Lu Xiaoman went with him. However, Wang Geng is busy with work every day and has no time to accompany her, so Lu Xiaoman invited his friend Xu Zhimo to play together.
As we all know, Xu Zhimo is a famous romantic genius, so in the process of acting, the feelings between the two quickly warmed up, so what should and should not happen also happened.
Finally, Lu Xiaoman and Wang Geng divorced, Xu Zhimo and his wife Zhang Youyi divorced, and they got married the next year. At that time, the witness at their wedding was Liang Qichao, and Liang Qichao also specifically reprimanded Xu Helu, hoping that they could go to the end wholeheartedly.
In a sense, Lu Xiaoman really likes Xu Zhimo, but the problem is that Xu Zhimo has always been obsessed with Lin. To this end, Xu Zhimo began to be indifferent to Lu Xiaoman, and the two men argued many times. Later, Xu Zhimo went to give a speech to Lin. As a result, his plane had an accident and he died.
It is said that even Yu Dafu can't describe Lu Xiaoman's sadness after learning of Xu Zhimo's death. In memory of Xu Zhimo, Lu Xiaoman spent a lot of energy sorting out Xu Zhimo's posthumous works, which made many good articles of Xu Zhimo come out. This year, Lu Xiaoman was 28 years old.
If Lu Xiaoman's feelings stop here, maybe her life and reputation will be another result, but after Xu Zhimo's death, Lu Xiaoman met another person named Weng Wurui, who was a good friend of Xu Zhimo before his death.
At that time, Lu Xiaoman often fainted because of poor health. It happens that Weng Wurui has a skill in massage, that is, Ding Fengshan's direct biography. He gave Lu Xiaoman a massage, which really cured him. Therefore, the two often have the opportunity to contact each other. In this process, their feelings also quickly warmed up and they soon lived together.
But at that time, Weng Wurui was a married man, and Lu Xiaoman knew it very well, but he was still willing to be a mistress. Later, under Weng's instigation, Lu Xiaoman began to smoke opium, and it was difficult to quit smoking. Since then, Weng Wurui has been taking care of her.
Of course, objectively speaking, Weng Wurui is also very kind to Lu Xiaoman. They live together, and Weng Wurui is taking care of Lu Xiaoman. But the problem is that Weng Wurui and Lu Xiaoman are not legitimate after all. They smoke opium all day, so people around them cut off contact with them.
Lu Xiaoman's family, because Lu Xiaoman humiliated his family, stopped seeing him. Later, Weng Wurui died in Lu Xiaoman first, and Lu Xiaoman, which had no economic resources, suddenly fell into poverty and hunger. Fortunately, under the care of Mayor Chen Yi, he was arranged to be a librarian in the Shanghai Museum of Literature and History, and only then did he earn a steady income.
By 1965, Lu Xiaoman died in Shanghai at the age of 63. Her last wish before her death was to be buried with Xu Zhimo, but Xu Zhimo's son refused. Because Xu Zhimo's son was born in Zhang Youyi, when Xu Zhimo abandoned his wife and son, how could Zhang Youyi's son let Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo be buried together, so this matter was soon forgotten.
At the same time, because Lu Xiaoman's parents have long passed away, she hasn't contacted the rest of the family for so many years, and Lu Xiaoman's behavior before his death was not very glorious, which humiliated the people, so the rest of the family ignored her, and Lu Xiaoman himself had no children.
Therefore, after Lu Xiaoman's death, her ashes have never been claimed or buried. Until 23 years later, Lu Xiaoman's nephew Lu Zongqi and niece Lu came forward to claim Lu Xiaoman's ashes and built a memorial tomb in Suzhou Dongshan Overseas Chinese Cemetery. The tombstone reads? Lu Xiaoman Memorial Tomb? There is also a photo of Lu Xiaoman when he was young. From then on, this stunning beauty was finally buried.