Confucius said, "His words are not enough (left? ), it is also difficult. "
"embarrassed", ashamed. Confucius said that it is difficult for a person not to be ashamed to speak.
Zhu Zhu noted: "A boaster will have no ambition to do anything, and he will not judge whether he can do it." . Isn't it hard to keep your promise? "If you speak easily, you have no will to do what you say, and you can't do what you say if you don't measure yourself.
This problem is very serious, that is, lies, big talk, empty talk, and cosmetic words that come with your mouth open. This has quickly become a national habit that goes deep into the bone marrow. And the more leaders, the easier it is to say false, big, empty and empty words. Why? Because no one dares to ask him to carry it out! He speaks regardless of whether he will do what he says, because it is unnecessary. When he said that beautiful sentence, he was moved to tears, and the newspaper praised him the next day, which made him even more flattered. Everyone is immersed in such a discourse environment, up and down, from small to large, unconsciously developed the habit of telling lies and empty words to deal with whitewashing. Therefore, the People's Daily publishes editorials every year to change the style of writing. I just searched an editorial in People's Daily:
? "The style of writing reflects the party style and political style, which is related to the image of the party and the success or failure of the cause.
"Our party has always attached great importance to improving the style of writing. The Central Committee has repeatedly stressed that it is necessary to make up its mind to improve the style of writing, advocate "short and pithy" and oppose "false sky". This seemingly formal innovation is actually a change in party style and political style, which embodies our party's ruling philosophy of seeking truth and being pragmatic. The style of writing must be changed, there must be consensus, and we must make up our minds to change it. If we don't change it, there is no way out.
"Bad writing style encourages formalism, affects work efficiency, reduces the party's prestige among the masses, and weakens the party's ruling foundation and ruling efficiency. If you can't stop this kind of disease, it will damage the party's body without surgery. "
Well, we study The Analects to criticize ourselves, observe ourselves and think about things. Do I have this problem myself?
Yes! Everyone has it!
"Don't say what you don't believe." If someone told you this, your reaction would be-of course! Sure! I don't believe it myself. How can I put it?
Actually, it's not. You talk about it every day. Try it if you don't believe me. From today on, take everything you say seriously, whether it's for customers, for leading colleagues and subordinates in the company, for parents and couples at home, or for children. Ask yourself if you believe it or not. You'll be shocked. Then there will be less talk, and you will speak slowly and act quickly.
Whether you believe it or not, the "chronic disease" mentioned by the People's Daily is a serious illness and can be cured. It's not that others want to be cured, but that I want to realize that I'm infected with this disease, too, and I must be cured! This is the unity of knowing and doing, and then words and deeds can be consistent.
Liu Shujue
Studying at school is a task, and you should get good grades. If you don't go to school, many people will be abandoned and some people will become hobbies. Reading and learning is one's own knowledge system and the scope of one's own research. Meanwhile, look in the mirror. What do you think he would do if it were you? Look at yourself every day, find problems and prescribe medicine for yourself. To tell the truth, do practical things, and the empty space will eventually burst. If you do one point, you will change one point. There is no point in not doing it.
The Analects of Confucius, I understand, is a dictionary for dealing with people. I talked about many different situations, different people, different contexts and interpretations of many people's affairs. Reading of the analects of confucius can help him to see himself better.
All the problems are your own inner problems. What kind of mentality do you use to look at what happened? The second is to keep learning. You must find out before you do it. Learning ability is the most basic ability to do things. Learn or not, see if you want to.
Insist on continuous study, study and introspection every day, and exercise the ability of continuous learning and continuous improvement.