Was Daiyu fooled by cleverness? Introduce Daiyu for the second time; "Smart and delicate" is the source. "The word" people "in every book is read as" secret ",which is always the case; When you encounter the word' min' in writing, you can reduce one or two strokes, which shows the delicacy of your mind. " Abandoning his father and leaving Beijing "to Jia Fu," pay attention step by step, always care about it, and refuse to say a word easily and take a few more steps ",which shows the cautious behavior; Grandmother Jia asked Daiyu what books to read. Daiyu replied, "I just read four books." She asked, "What books do sisters read? "What book are you reading?" asked Grandmother Jia. ? You are just blind with your eyes open. This is obviously unnecessary, and naturally it will be self-defeating, and it will be a rebuff and a prevarication. This is obviously contrary to her "refusal to say a word easily", so Baoyu asked her "Did my sister learn it?" She immediately replied: No, I only learned it for a year and knew a few words. She is quick-witted and "resourceful". This is not "smart", but what is smart? Because that can only be cleverness, not great wisdom of survival, she pays attention to the small details of life and ignores the big links in life.
Is Baoyu misunderstood by many things? Baoyu's "lifelong mistake" is easily confused with lifelong career. How to distinguish: lifelong career, lifelong event, so there are two words: lifelong benefit, lifelong event. Lifelong events refer to events related to life, especially marriage. In A Mistake for Life, it refers to children's affair and marriage events: all roads are good marriages, and I only read the alliance of wood and stone. Facing the crystal snow of the nobles in the mountains, I miss the lonely forest in the world, sighing that there is a fly in the ointment, but even taking Qi Mei as an example, my meaning is hard to be even. The previous sentence took care of the plot of "Flowers in a Dream": I suddenly saw Baoyu yelling in his dream and cursing: How can I believe what monks and Taoists say? What is a good marriage, I prefer to say that it is an alliance between wood and stone; The second sentence echoes the plot of "Xue Baochai is ashamed to cage a string of red musk deer": Baoyu looks at a crisp white arm and is envious. He thought to himself, "If this arm grows on Sister Lin, or if you have to touch it, it will grow on him." The key to the latter sentence is the word "fly in the ointment", which echoes "opening the book for the first time": there are some joys in the world of mortals, but they cannot be possessed forever. In addition, the words "fly in the ointment, many good things grind" are interlocking, and for an instant, I am extremely happy and sad. People remain the same, but in the end it is a dream, and everything is empty. "Even if" and "unfair" are the core essence of "error". Lifelong mistake, missed Baoyu's lifelong event; Missed the happiness of Baoyu's life; But Baoyu also "realized" from this "mistake", and there is a special cloud in the book: Baoyu realized Zen machine. Daiyu couldn't help laughing: "This man is awake." Awakening is an instant action, and enlightenment is a process action. Some people meditate, some people realize, there is an epiphany that "people look for him for thousands of Baidu, and suddenly look back, but that person is in the dim light", and there is also an epiphany that "seeing mountains is mountains and water is water; Seeing mountains is not mountains, and seeing water is not water; See mountains or mountains, water or water. When Baoyu's fugue was too empty, "the police illusion saw Baoyu was very boring, because he sighed that the idiot had not yet realized it." "It is not easy to realize this. Jia Xichun also realized that Sanquan could be explored. What you get is empty flower enlightenment; Baoyu was born with a normal heart, and popular thoughts sprouted. " I also want to enjoy the splendor of the world. "Then he took him to" a prosperous country, a home of poetry and propriety, a place to live and work in peace and contentment ",and then" traveled to sleep ",where the police were drunk by spirits and fairy tea, and became a beautiful woman with a wonderful singing voice. This can be described as: looking at flowers in the fog, understanding from mistakes, and gaining from understanding.
Feng was mistaken by the machine? Needless to say, it took a lot of effort. "Smart and Tired" makes it very clear that the agency is too smart, but it misses your life. She is smarter than her, and the final result is "crying to Jinling is even sadder."
Baochai was mistaken by common sense? Seventy-six times in the book, Xiang Yun asked Baochai for advice with the word "bi". Baochai said confidently, "Don't look it up. This is what we call" burning the midnight oil in the morning ",which makes me awe:" It seems that Sister Bao knows a lot "(Baoyu once said that she" knows everything from now on, * *). However, she always abides by feudal ethics, tries her best to suppress her desires and thoughts, and dares not cross the line. She abides by the feudal dogma that "a woman without talent is virtue", which is also the reason for the birth of Xiang Ling's Mu Ya Nv Ji Ya Ku Yin Shi and Wu Heng Lan Jun Yu Mystery. She pushed herself to others, did what she wanted, and asked for help. She doesn't cook jiaozi in a teapot-she won't say anything, but she is stupid enough to eat Rhizoma Coptidis-she won't say bitter. Can't fully display their personality; If you can't fully display your talent, knowledge and erudition, if you can't show them, it will become a stagnant pool and a rotten wood, but only running water will not rot and the hub will not be stupid. If that kind of knowledge cannot be effectively transformed and replaced, it will be tired, injured, trapped and wrong.
Xiangyun was mistaken by self-love? Self-love means cherishing oneself (reputation). Xiang Yun's verdict reads, "In infancy, his parents lamented his death." This is not Xiang Yun's self-injury, but the author's lament. In the reply of "Poetry binds sadness and loneliness", Xiangyun said a passage to comfort Dai Yu: "You are a smart man, why do you have to make this image bitter? I'm just like you. I'm not as narrow-minded as you are, and you are sick and don't take care of yourself. " They are people in the same boat-"I am just like you" (no father, no mother, no brother, no brother), controlling variables; But Xiangyun is not narrow-minded, it is a univariate variable. This kind of narrowness is just the opposite of width, which corresponds to magnanimous "width". There is no difference between the attitude towards life and the emotion towards life, only the difference between ups and downs. Daiyu also advised, "Seeing that he is so comforted, he refuses to betray his lofty sentiments." This "lofty sentiments" seems to be related to the "tolerance and tolerance" of "a hero", and he never left. There is a saying in Buddhism: there is dust in the eyes, but there is no bed width in the heart. Daiyu has "dust in her eyes" and "no dust in her eyes". Xiangyun has nothing to do with the heart, which is interpreted as "feeling", that is, "the heart is high"-"I never care about the feelings of children, and I am aboveboard and noble, which is a burning concern. This "self-love" and "love" can be combined with Xiang Yun's pronunciation of "two" as "love". Xiangyun just can't tell whether she is having an affair with her children or is obsessed with her brothers and sisters, so she can't understand it. So, I missed my youth and my bright future.
Attacking people by being competitive? For the third time in the book, it is specifically explained that "this xiren also has some characteristics: when serving her grandmother, there is only one grandmother in her heart; Now I serve Baoyu, and there is only one Baoyu in my heart. " It's hard to imagine such honesty, but in the seventy-seventh episode, Xiren said something that is worth exploring: Qingwen is nothing, and she needs such thoughts compared with these serious people! Besides, even if he is good, he can't destroy my order. Even this begonia must come first, but it's not his turn. His resentment is beyond words, and his grievances are vividly on the paper. This is the "competitive" side of xiren: unwilling to lag behind. However, this is only a superficial victory, and the deeper victory is: dare to be the first. That was after the 1980s, when the Jia family declined. She is willing to be a victim. Looking up at the "Green Pearl" Siqi is brave (Qingwen also has the courage-illness makes up the bird's golden hair). This kind of "courage" is not a person's courage to go into battle to kill the enemy, but to solve problems for the master-"desperate". Its energy is sincere, but it is better than the attacker: taking the blame for the Jia family-"self-discipline", and its spirit is competitive. This kind of "competition" is a kind of courage to take responsibility, dare to be the first, be a pioneer, wait for the general's orders, and bravely carry heavy burdens; Weak arms can save the world.
These spoony daughters are all mistaken by their own personalities, asked for it, and forced. In short, all roads lead to the same goal. Their mistake, from a deeper level, is because of the decadent and dark society, so that they do not know themselves, do not wake up, do not fully understand.