How to solve the conflict of funeral?

China people pay special attention to geomantic omen and believe in eight-character numerology. Let's say it's superstition, but it's actually a deep-rooted thought. Everyone wants luck. Some things that may cause trouble are avoided as much as possible, and sometimes they are superstitious. It is a very taboo thing for everyone that the zodiac animals collide with each other. What if the beloved person buries the girl Xiang Chong Jr.? What are the taboos after the death of a loved one?

Ancient books mainly focus on disaster relief. If the selected date cannot be changed, and the selected date meets the animal sign of the deceased (which is not conducive to the burial of the deceased that day, and it is difficult to make the world safe), you can pray to Diwang Bodhisattva before burial, melt a scroll of Tibetan scriptures in the tomb, and get the help of the Bodhisattva, so that the bad luck can be resolved.

Feng shui taboo after the death of a loved one;

1, it is forbidden to let the dead be naked.

In the old society, when the old people reached a certain age, their children and grandchildren often prepared shroud for them in leap month, so that the old people could rest assured.

The quantity and texture of the shroud are very particular. The number of pieces should be odd, such as five pieces, seven pieces and nine pieces, and avoid even numbers for fear of disaster coming again; Satin is forbidden in materials.

Because "satin" and "broken son" are homophonic, silk is often used, because "silk" and "thick son" are homophonic, meaning to bless future generations; Shrouds can't be made of fur yet, for fear of becoming beasts in the afterlife.

2. Choice of funeral date and cemetery

The ancients thought that the soul would not go far at once after death, and death would involve many matters, so the ancients paid special attention to the choice of funeral date to avoid a series of misfortunes.

The choice of cemetery has been very particular since ancient times. It is generally believed that the quality of a cemetery is directly related to the wealth and good fortune of future generations.

In the old society, there were ten taboos about the choice of cemetery: no folk songs, no rough and stubborn stones, no beaches, no desperate situation at the source of ravines, no isolated hills, no prisoners around the temple, no hills, no worries about feng shui and no dragons and tigers.

Therefore, professionals should be invited to choose the date of the funeral and the cemetery with good feng shui.

3. Avoid people attending funerals and the zodiac of the deceased.

At funerals, there is usually a sign that there is a zodiac that conflicts with the zodiac of the deceased and must be avoided. Some will put a basin of water in the mourning hall to bathe the guests who come to attend the funeral to dispel the ominous atmosphere.

4, avoid burial, the coffin bearer said heavy words.

During the funeral, the pallbearers should keep quiet and avoid talking about the word "heavy". If you accidentally blurt it out, it may cause accidents, such as the coffin is heavy and difficult to lift, or the coffin falls to the ground while moving.

5. Don't look at building a temple, don't look at marriage, and don't touch women and children who are filial.

Because people generally think that people who wear mourning clothes have bad omen, they should avoid all occasions related to gods and celebrations, such as building temples, setting stoves, or weddings and wedding banquets.