But in fact, some people now think that some people will choose to divorce after a few years of second marriage. What's going on here? In fact, this should be considered from many aspects. First of all, remarriage will encounter different pressures from first marriage. At first, the pressure comes from some new family members that both parties may bring, such as their children. After family members who don't have much emotional foundation are mixed together, the relationship between them will naturally be particularly tense. Stepparents face stepchildren, and the relationship is always a special headache.
Moreover, we also know that remarriage may face the pressure of new social relations. The formation of this kind of family mainly comes from our previous social relations and has adapted to the original spouse relationship. However, once this friendship changes, it will take some time for the outside world to adapt, so in the process of others' experiments, it will bring some pressure to this reorganized family more or less.
On the other hand, people who remarry are also faced with very realistic interests differences between the two sides. Although they are two reorganized families, before, well, both sides had their own economic conditions. After two families are reunited into one family, the economic combination will naturally become more complicated. Among them, the most complicated should be the arrangement of various child support payments and the division of inheritance and property.
Therefore, in the face of these practical problems, it is often difficult to make those seemingly happy second marriage lives. Of course, this is not the decisive factor. As long as two people can reach a consensus and cherish this hard-won happy life, everything can be solved.
However, compared with the first marriage, remarried people have stronger self-protection mechanism, and compared with the first marriage, they all have divorce experience for the second marriage, so this is why many people say that the divorce rate of second-married couples is not low.