1. Love is more than just giving. The occasional jokes, generous tolerance, kind requests, and necessary quarrels will make love more memorable. Facing it with a normal heart, love will be more real and purer. Love is an ordinary life.
2. True love is sharing and creation, not possession and control. I love you, I use my words and my actions to treat you well and create a better you, and in the process , I also created a new and better version of myself.
3. When you meet, please be grateful; when you fall in love, please cherish it; when you turn around, please be graceful; when you say goodbye, please smile; because once you turn around, you may never see each other again in your life. We will never meet again. You don’t know at which intersection we will be separated.
4. Everyone who does not understand love will meet someone who does. Then go experience a heart-breaking love, and then separate. Later, people who didn’t understand love gradually understood. People who know how to love don’t dare to love anymore. This is how love flows between us.
5. Love is an insecure thing. The more you love someone, the more you will worry about them leaving, doubt, worry about gains and losses, and think more. Just because two people love each other may not make it to the end. Only when two people are together all the time will there be good results. There are many possibilities for love, but there is only one possibility for marriage, and that is companionship. What is a sense of security? What is around you is a sense of security.
6. Love is like white rice, and the romantic process is like vegetables. When people are hungry, they think about eating. But after eating, more people like to comment on whether the food is delicious, while ignoring the white rice. Acquaintance is people's will, adding up is friendship, and affection is intentional. We can get together because our hearts are in harmony.
7. Love itself is a habit. We are used to one person, but we must not replace your lover easily. Because love is not a job. If you lose your job, you can still get it back. But love is lost and can never be found again. Even if you find it back, it is not the original love, and the person who loves you is not the original person.
8. Some people say that love is a kind of responsibility; now I understand that responsibility is a lifetime. Now think about why so many relationships that become dull after passion can persist to the end step by step. In addition to getting used to it and loving it deeply, there should be two people supporting each other, understanding, tolerance, and never leaving.< /p>
9. Only silent love can accompany you till old age. So when choosing a good man, don’t be blinded by impulse. What you say well is not as good as what you do well, and what you do well is not as good as turning it into a habit. Habitual concern is the greatest love. The beautiful emotional story with pictures is so well said
1. Walking through the fleeting years, I missed the time, lost the beauty, and faded away the past. I cried, laughed, quarreled, and made trouble, and no matter how reluctant I was to leave, it was just the past.
2. There is a kind of gaze, when we meet each other, we know that one day we will be nostalgic; there is a feeling, when we have not parted, we know that one day we will be heartbroken; there is a kind of mood, half drunk and half awake, I discovered that it turned out to be lovesickness; there is a kind of fate that was destined to last forever the moment I met you.
3. Is there someone you want to see but can’t; is there someone you want to love but don’t dare to love; is there someone you want to forget but can’t? Forget.
4. Time has love, but time is ruthless. Time has aged the appearance, but time has enriched the content. In the ruthless years, how many love stories have turned into tragic endings, and how many lovers have lost to the ruthlessness of the years. However, time has love. Carrying the emotional accumulation of time, we embark on a journey, walking on the road of love with a pious heart, looking for the seed of love beside my heartless stone.
5. One day you will emerge from the chrysalis and grow more beautiful than people expect, but this process will be painful and hard, and sometimes you will feel discouraged.
6. Slowly I understand how much waiting time can bear. Many people leave before they have time to say goodbye, and many things become the past before they have time to do them. In life, no one has ever been hurt, hurt, lost, or regretted. Not everyone who passes by will become an acquaintance, and not everyone who comes and goes will be engraved in our hearts.
7. If you really care about me enough, then you can always find time to accompany me, without excuses, lies, or unfulfilled promises. If your heart is willing, there are thousands of paths. If you don't want to, there are thousands of reasons. My dear, I have stayed for you, believed in you, expected, waited, hoped, cried, and finally got on the road again.
8. Only when you are by your side can you be considered as having someone, and only if you love and get used to it will it last forever. Missed love is like a stagnant watch, which can never meet the crossed hands. Some scars are scratched on the heart, even if they are lightly scratched, they will remain in the heart. In life, there always seems to be unbearable pain. In life, there are always some exquisite emotional porcelain broken around us, but the cracks remain in the moment when we look back at the end of the year.
9. My heart can’t hold a fist, but it can hold any process of love. My heart can’t hide myself, but it can be filled with persistent pain. You said I don’t know sweet words, but you forgot Starting from a certain day, I couldn't stand up to the hurt you gave me, and I always gave you sweet words silently in my heart. It's just that I couldn't face those hurts that continued over and over again, but I still had to lose my self-esteem to comfort you.
10. I once thought that I could put you down while walking in a strange mezzanine. When a familiar song suddenly sounded in my ears on a dusky afternoon, I realized that I had already burst into tears. That melody that you have whispered a thousand times has become layer upon layer of sadness in my memory. The love advice given by a mother to her daughter is so good
1. Be wary of men who are very kind to many people. Because inappropriate relationships will continue to cause trouble. Love is something you can find by yourself without asking for it.
2. Don’t marry a man who likes to sleep in. A man who is too lazy in the morning cannot be diligent in the afternoon.
3. Don’t marry a man with a big belly. I’ve never seen a man who can’t manage himself well do his best to raise a family.
4. Don’t marry a man who talks casually to your parents. If this is true for your parents, it will soon be true for you too. Filial piety is an excellent character that has nothing to do with the times.
5. Be careful of men who walk slowly. Maybe you need to make money to support him.
6. Don’t marry someone who finds it fun to refute you in front of your friends. It’s easy to break up for ridiculous reasons.
7. Don’t marry a man who won’t contact you if you don’t contact him
8. Don’t be a third party, because this is an embarrassing role
< p> When girls face this wonderful and colorful world, they will have many likes and pursuits of their own. Perhaps, there are few young girls who do not yearn for a romantic and comfortable life, and there are also very few young girls who are not attracted to jewelry and handsome and passionate men. Yes, you can use legitimate means, your talent and hard work to get it, and you will get what should be yours. You can also have noble makeup, live in a beautiful and spacious house, drive a luxury car, and even have your own deep love story. Love Prince Charming.However, my daughter, please remember: emotional competition is allowed in love. At that time, many couples were still in the relationship, and everyone still had the same opportunity to choose and be chosen. But once the boy you like enters marriage, or faces a man who is already married, you must accept the fact that no matter how good he is and how difficult it is to let go, he already belongs to someone else. Possessing people or things that do not belong to you is a dishonorable act, similar to robbing or stealing, which is disgraceful.
Secondly, if you are a kind-hearted girl, and if your competitor is also a kind-hearted woman, you will bear moral condemnation and conscience torture for your actions, and you will be hurt. She, and perhaps the innocent child, were deeply disturbed. You will soon discover that happiness built on the pain of others will never be pure happiness. The bitterness in it will wet you and soak you bit by bit like cold rain, making you never feel the same again. I can’t find my cheerful and carefree self again.
If your competitor is a tough woman, she will know how to deal with you. She will direct all her suspicion, resentment and anger at you, causing you to be hurt and humiliated. Then you will find: the real war will begin between two women, and in this battle, there is no real winner. You will also find that you are the one who gets hurt in the end.
Even if you win this war with great pains and scars and get the person you long to spend your life with, your romantic feelings, your self-esteem and passion may also be lost at that time. It was exhausted in the protracted fighting. Have you ever seen a shooting star? It rushes towards our light blue planet with great enthusiasm and dedication. Along the way, it is radiant and charming. However, when it landed on the ground, it had burned out all its energy, extinguished its dazzling light, and turned into an ordinary meteorite.
The person you love may also look like this to you, because there is no distance, and because marriage is not a sky, but a real land.
So, daughter, don’t be greedy for the dangerous scenery, don’t let your emotions slide out of the rational track, and turn around bravely. There are many outstanding boys in this world, and you will definitely find your own sunshine. Such transparent and beautiful love.
9. Don’t marry a widowed man
You can’t bear his mountain-like sorrow and weight, and you can’t have him completely unless you don’t care; unless you love him enough So deep that you love the house and the bird, because you love him and love what he loves; unless you have a strong psychological endurance; and unless you are particularly confident in yourself, because, maybe at the beginning, deep in his heart, you are just the memory of his dead wife Stand-in, he will compare you involuntarily, he will retain her breath, her habits, her memories. If he is a passionate man, this process will be longer.
You may be jealous, and you may feel that she is standing between you, making you distant and unfamiliar. But you can't see her, you can't see her, but her shadow is everywhere, she wanders and permeates around you. Gradually, you will become depressed, suspicious, neurotic, and even doubt his love for you and yourself. charm and doubt whether the initial choice was correct.
This is where the gaps begin.
You may not be willing to admit that a living life has lost to a decaying life. My child, you will not win when competing for favor with a dead woman, just because she is unfortunate compared to you: you are the young and beautiful bride, and she is the poor dead wife. People sympathize with the weak, not to mention that she was once his wife who shared his bed and pillow, and was the history of his prosperous years. Who can cut off history? History is a heavy existence, the fact that they were once connected by flesh and blood. Therefore, although Yin and Yang are separated, although she has been wiped out, she can fill his memory and heart like air because she is invisible.
Also, if she leaves a daughter, this daughter will be your potential enemy. She will defend and fight for her father in place of her mother. At that time, you will be attacked from both sides, exhausted, in a dilemma, and completely defeated.
10. Don’t marry a mentally retarded person
Some people have said that half of the success of a marriage lies in the management after marriage. It can be seen that the choice before marriage is crucial. Before getting married, you must open your eyes wide and trust your eyes rather than your ears. The quality of a man will definitely affect the quality of a woman's life, and vice versa.
If a girl meets an unkind person and marries a man of poor quality by mistake, her marriage will undoubtedly be a disaster. But these are just some extreme examples. For more men and women in failed marriages, there may be no quality problems on both sides, but personality or psychological problems.
The formation of a person's sound personality and healthy psychology and defective personality and morbid psychology can be traced back to childhood.
Psychologists have confirmed that children who grow up in discordant families are more withdrawn, have low self-esteem, are sensitive, are not good at communication, lack trust in others, and have difficulty forming close relationships. Moreover, many shortcomings will be magnified exponentially in marriage.
Therefore, the relationship between family background and family members cannot be ignored: a boy cannot learn how to love women tenderly, learn to cherish, care, tolerate and Respect women. Similarly, a boy who has lost his father's love since childhood may become overly dependent on his mother and obey his mother's instructions. The mother will also regard this boy as the entire emotional sustenance, and even as the incarnation of her husband.
When you meet such a mother, you actually become a third party or a predator, and you will definitely encounter strong resistance from the mother.
With your immaturity, how can you possibly deal with an experienced and calm woman?
This will be a long-lasting, difficult, and disparate war. Your delicate skin. , eyes as clear as water and a voice as gentle as jade will all be lost in the smoke.
But I don’t want you to learn to curse, hate, sneer, ridicule and abuse, and I don’t want to see you give up your pride, self-respect and reserve. Daughter, I'm afraid that you will become rough because of this, do you understand?
Moreover, a boy who is not mentally sound enough is not suitable to be your lover.
Therefore, giving up is still a wise move.
Daughter, my mother also wants to say that even if one day you find your favorite, you must understand that all living things will change. This is the most natural and normal state. Please Take it gracefully.
Love is also alive, so it will also change. On the one hand, it may wither, deteriorate or even die; on the other hand, it may transform into family affection, similar to blood relations: life and death dependence, Honor, disgrace and passion.
Love gains new life in this form.
In fact, passion is the expression of sex, and family affection is the sublimation of love. Perhaps, it is more real and closer to the essence of love, isn't it?
Here, my mother wishes you blessings in advance.
Bless all the girls who are getting married. A very beautiful emotional story told so well
An unintentional word may cause a dispute;
A kind word may make people feel better;
< p> It takes a thousand words to cultivate a person;It only takes one sentence to destroy a person.
Only when you speak carefully can you avoid trouble;
If you think twice before you act, will you have fewer regrets.
A word is both light and heavy;
A word is common and precious.
Only when there is a ruler in the heart can the mouth be measured;
When a person has humility, he should think carefully before speaking.
Everyone has shortcomings,
Just like a chipped cup,
As long as you don’t look at the mouth,
The cup Just complete.
Therefore, appreciate the advantages of others more,
blame less, and know that you have shortcomings;
Instead of staring at the advantages of others with envy and jealousy ,
It is better to withdraw your gaze, lower your head and study seriously;
Instead of wasting time on how to prevent others from being better than yourself,
It is better to work hard secretly , let yourself become a strong person
If you hope that other people’s achievements will bring you happiness,
it is better to bring happiness to others.
Learning to retract your gaze is the true vision.
Your own taste determines your own environment,
the friends around you.
Only by giving up something can something be renewed;
Only by letting go of the old can something be learned;
Only by breaking up friendship can one have a close friend;
Don’t panic when something happens, and don’t be decisive when looking at people.
Only with a calm mind can you hear the voices of all things;
Only with a clear mind can you see the essence of human beings.
If you want to make a conclusion about someone or something,
You might as well wait a little longer,
Things are always full of unknown variables,
What you see and hear,
may not be true.
Being awake is a kind of reason;
Being confused is a kind of wisdom.
When you look back at the things that once made you angry,
you find they are not worth mentioning;
When you recall the pain of the past,
It turned out that everything was calm and calm.