What is the custom of marriage in Lufeng, Shanwei, Guangdong?

In terms of marriage, all parts of Guangdong basically follow the customary procedures of "three books" and "six rituals".

The "three books" refer to the "engagement book" in which a man and a woman formally enter into an engagement, the "gift book" detailing the types and quantities of gifts, and the "marriage book" on the wedding day.

"Six gifts" refers to the six steps before the wedding: accepting lottery, asking names, accepting gifts, inviting the bride, inviting the bride, and asking the matchmaker to propose with gifts. Second, ask names, propose marriage and exchange "birthdays" between men and women; The third day, Najib, was actually an engagement ceremony. Please drink congratulations.

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Differences between Chinese and Western Weddings: Ritual Differences

In Chinese weddings, parents are very important, and new people need to pay New Year greetings and offer tea to their parents. This is a very important ceremony to spread China's filial piety. Marriage is to thank parents for their kindness in raising themselves. The couple have informed each other's parents and formally recognized the door.

In western countries, there are no links such as offering sacrifices and tea. In fact, people can only see a link about their parents at the wedding, and only see their father, that is, when the father enters the venue, the daughter holds his father's hand, and the father personally blocks his daughter in front of the groom and gives it to the other party.

References:

Baidu Encyclopedia-Guangzhou Marriage Customs

References:

Baidu Encyclopedia-Guangdong Marriage Customs