Parents say that we are not in line with the eight characters, and what should we do if we refuse to accept them?

The fire in the stove, the earth, the sword and the front gold

The woman-WuChen's RenXu month, the third noon day

Dalinmu sea, the Tianhe water

You'd better find out when your horoscope is missing, because the woman doesn't know it's the lunar calendar-the solar calendar.