A few days ago, I was chatting with a friend online and talked about fortune telling.
She said that she has been very troubled recently. She and her boyfriend wanted to get married, but the boyfriend’s parents, especially his mother, were firmly opposed and thought that their horoscopes were not compatible, so she asked me to help her take a look. I told her that I have not studied the horoscopes. If the horoscopes are inconsistent, it is best to seek advice from other "masters", haha.
I looked at her hand pictures and face photos.
Her main marriage line (under the little finger) is bifurcated at the beginning, just like the English letter Y written horizontally and backwards, with the bifurcated head on the palm, indicating that there will be difficulties and twists and turns in the beginning of the marriage. Only through constant struggle, communication, persuasion, and trying to solve difficulties can lovers be taught to be loved ones.
She asked me if there was a mismatch in my horoscopes, was there any way to resolve it?
I told her that only by cultivating morality, do more good deeds, try your best to help others, strive to enrich your knowledge, and enhance the value of life. In the future, husband and wife can get along with each other politely and patiently, appreciate each other's strengths, and forgive. The shortcomings of the other party can be used to seek good luck and avoid bad luck.
As for changing the horoscope, drawing talismans, chanting mantras, and praying to gods for magic, these are not recorded in the fortune telling and numerology books passed down through the ages, just like the Buddhist scriptures do not say that incense ash can cure diseases. Same. The fact that they are related is just a trick used by charlatans and magicians to make money.
An old man once told me that he had fortune telling when he was young, and he knew that he could defeat his wife. He has a stubborn personality and refuses to admit defeat, but he knows how to cultivate himself and exercise restraint. When he had an awkward quarrel with his wife, and his wife yelled, "You're a wife-killer, you want to make me angry to death!", he would immediately stop and apologize, so the quarrels at the head of the bed and the end of the bed were peaceful. After decades of marriage, there was no violence. Disaster, now we have children and grandchildren around our knees and grow old together, because the "restraint" in fortune is not terrible, it just means that there are opinions or disagreements, and the living habits may be different, and it does not mean separation between life and death.
So instead of calculating horoscopes, it is better to treat your marriage more rationally. For example, the ancients tabooed the age difference between men and women by 6 years and 6 months. They called this six clashes and considered it unlucky. But if you happen to meet an excellent friend of the opposite sex at work, and they fall in love with each other, unexpectedly, you will be guilty of "six punches". Do you have the heart to leave her? Or have you carefully calculated whether there was an error in the conversion between the lunar calendar and the solar calendar? However, no matter what. There is always a little awkwardness in my heart. In fact, where does "Six Chong" come from? Is it a broken heart in six or six years? Or is it a congenital lack of fate? Even if it is not destined, the ancient background has changed greatly from today. Perhaps, your birthplace or birthplace In the era, the key to conflict has been solved.
Marriage in ancient my country was based on the orders of the parents and the words of the matchmaker. The most important thing was whether the horoscopes of the man and the woman were compatible. In the story "Plug Phoenix", the marriage of Lu You and his cousin was forcibly broken up due to the mischief of a fortune teller, leaving readers with a feeling of infinite sadness.
In the past, young men and women had no chance to get to know each other except cousins, so they had to resort to horoscope marriage. For modern men and women to form a couple and live together, the main thing is that they can agree with each other, so they must know each other, interact with each other, observe each other for a long time, and understand each other's strengths and weaknesses. If each other can appreciate each other's strengths, forgive each other's shortcomings, encourage each other to improve their shortcomings, tolerate and give in to each other, then why should we fear any punishment?
Modern marriage is based on free love. If men and women are proposed to have a horoscope marriage, and if they believe in and approve of a horoscope marriage, then people will laugh off their teeth and think it is naive, superstitious, and pedantic. It doesn't make sense.
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