With a Douban score of 8.8, Liu Yifei’s new drama "Menghua Lu" is really the ceiling of ancient puppet dramas.
She obviously can rely on her beauty, but she insists on pursuing a career. She comes from a humble background, but she is neither humble nor arrogant.
Gu Qianfan (played by Chen Xiao) sent his men to take out his salary for the past three months and send it to Zhao Paner (played by Liu Yifei) as daily expenses.
His subordinates were hesitant, neither saying they wanted to go nor saying not to go.
Gu Qianfan saw that something was fishy, ??so he asked his subordinates what was going on?
The subordinates could only tell Gu Qianfan that Zhao Paner had opened a teahouse with his two sisters Sun Sanniang (played by Liu Yan) and Song Yinzhang (played by Lin Yuner).
Obviously Gu Qianfan can support her, but Zhao Paner chooses to pursue her own career. Who wouldn’t like such a beautiful woman who can also make money?
No wonder Gu Qianfan’s eyes when looking at Zhao Paner were so stringy.
We can’t learn from Zhao Paner’s beauty, but we can learn from her beautiful life!
01. Never look down on yourself
At the age of nine, Zhao Pan'er became an official slave because of her father's crime, and became a singer and dancer in Hangzhou Leying. When he was sixteen years old, because of the eunuch's order, he left his nationality and became a good man.
At that time, as long as you were a lowly person, you would be looked down upon even if you became a good person later. Being married is also a stain of being picked on, and sometimes you feel inferior to others.
But Zhao Paner has never looked down on herself, even if she was criticized by others.
Her fiancé Ouyang Xu, with her support, went to Beijing to take the exam and got the top prize.
I originally thought that I could go to Tokyo and become a sweetheart, but unexpectedly I got the news that Ouyang Xu was going to regret his marriage and marry a girl from the Gao family.
Although it was Ouyang Xu’s uncle De who came to deliver the news, Zhao Paner still refused to believe it.
You must meet Ouyang Xu and hear what he says personally before you give up.
As a result, after meeting Ouyang Xu, he asked her to be his concubine. Miss Gao was required to marry her, and the wedding would be held half a year later. The reason is because of Zhao Pan'er's former lowly status.
What Ouyang Xu said implicitly was that marrying her was risky. If her former lowly status was discovered, her career would be affected. However, he didn't want to live up to her three-year friendship, so he could only let her be his concubine, which was also for her own good.
Ouyang Xu obviously wanted to climb high and was afraid that Zhao Pan'er would cause trouble, but he spoke in a high-sounding way. Marrying a young lady from the Gao family was a last resort, and making her a concubine was also a last resort.
Zhao Paner heard what Ouyang Xu meant, so she decisively refused: I, Zhao Paner, will never be a concubine.
Although she came from a humble background, Zhao Paner did not feel that she was humble, and she would not accept being a concubine just because of this forced experience.
She once said: "What happened to my lowly status? It was destiny, not my fault. When I was here, I was clean and innocent, and I never used sex to cause trouble. After I left my status, I made a living by selling tea, and I didn't do anything." I have nothing to be ashamed of when I am willing to fall for myself!"
She cannot change her status, but she sticks to her principles and does not serve others with sex, which is very valuable.
Zheng Juan in "The Human World", although she was raped by Luo Shibin, did not underestimate herself or give up on herself, and finally gained a beautiful love.
Sometimes fate will push us into the quagmire. What we have to do is not to give up on ourselves, but to get out of the mire and remain unstained. Like a seed, silently accumulating strength in the darkness, then taking root and sprouting!
As long as you don’t underestimate yourself, no matter what you go through, you will move towards the light!
02. Insist on relying on yourself
When she went to Tokyo to find a husband, she saw Ouyang Xu’s face clearly, and Zhao Paner no longer had the illusion of marrying him.
At this moment, she just wanted to get back the painting that Ouyang Xu borrowed from her.
But this painting had been given away by Ouyang Xu a long time ago and would never come back.
So Uncle De, who was next to Ouyang Xu, found local gangsters to intimidate Zhao Paner. Unexpectedly, Zhao Paner instigated rebellion and helped her.
So these hooligans beat gongs and drums every day and shouted at Ouyang Xu’s door: If you borrow money and don’t pay it back, it’s God’s fault!
Ouyang Xu was afraid that it would affect his marriage, so he had no choice but to find someone from the government to deal with Zhao Pan'er. The three Zhao Pan'er sisters were severely beaten, paraded through the streets, and finally kicked out of Tokyo.
At this moment, Zhao Pan'er, who was already frustrated when she met Gu Qianfan, was inspired to fight by Gu Qianfan's few words.
Gu Qianfan said: "You are just like a rag, being thrown out of Tokyo!"
Zhao Pan'er said that she was unwilling to give up, so she was kicked out.
So the three sisters came to Tokyo again and decided to make a career here.
Gu Qianfan arranged accommodation for them and wanted to spend his salary on them.
But Zhao Paner did not accept it and opened a teahouse behind his back.
The capital for the teahouse was saved when she opened a teahouse in Qiantang County. She asked Gu Qianfan's subordinate Chen Lian to help get it.
Chen Lian asked: "If you don't leave any money, is this your escape route?"
Zhao Pan'er said: "If you don't leave any money, it will be your retreat wherever I am!"
>Yes, only those who rely on themselves can regard themselves as their own escape route.
Gu Qianfan was obviously willing to give her money to spend, but she insisted on making money on her own. Perhaps only in this way could she have more confidence to stand by his side!
Relying on yourself is the coolest thing in the world.
Because you can only be yourself if you rely on yourself!
03. Have a career and have sustenance
The three-year relationship with Ouyang Xu was not as powerful as Miss Gao's family. After being admitted to the top prize, she immediately regretted the marriage. The pain of broken love and betrayal made Zhao Paner seriously ill.
After she recovered from the illness, she immediately cheered up, not because she no longer loved her, nor because she had given up, but because she had her own career and her own sustenance.
Gu Qianfan knew about Zhao Paner’s teahouse and came to the teahouse to ask her why she didn’t spend his money and insisted on opening the teahouse by herself. Is it that easy to open a teahouse?
She told Gu Qianfan: "When I picked up the teapot and abacus, all the grievances in my heart disappeared! Tokyo is so big and good, if it can accommodate you, it can certainly accommodate us!" ”
When a person’s life includes not only the love of her children but also her own career, she will not be easily defeated.
If you regard love as everything, then once you are betrayed, you will have nothing.
If you still have a career, then you will not lose miserably, and you will have the confidence to say goodbye to the wrong person and wait until the right person appears.
Zheng Juan in "The Human World" had a very difficult life. Zhou Bingkun was imprisoned twice, and she supported the family alone.
Although she did not have a big career, she sold popsicles in the summer and baked sweet potatoes in the winter. She also raised her children. When Zhou Bingkun was released from prison, the family was reunited.
It can be seen that having a career does not necessarily mean opening a company. Making a lot of money, working hard, and being able to make money on your own to support your family is a career.
Only when you have a career can you have sustenance, and only when you have sustenance can you have hope! If you have hope, you will live a beautiful life!
04.
Zhao Paner looks beautiful and lives an even more beautiful life!
Gu Qianfan is known as the Living Yama, and everyone is fascinated by her. No wonder netizens posted comments saying: Gu Qianfan’s eyes are so stringy when he looks at her.
Although Zhao Paner was once a musician, she does not look down upon herself because of her humble status.
She does not want to rely on others, but relies on herself to become her own escape route.
She does not get stuck in emotional pain, but focuses on having her own career.
She shines like this, leaving behind a ruthless Ouyang Xu, but gaining an affectionate Gu Qianfan, truly fulfilling that sentence: If you bloom, butterflies will come!