The child's life is hard, and the horoscope emphasizes the balance of the five elements, so the hardness needs to be adjusted to a lower point.
Under normal circumstances, it is better to vent than to restrain. Water can be used as the god of joy.
The child's five elements lack fire. Fire can also overcome metal to make the mission weaker, and use fire as the god. Otherwise, it will be difficult to discipline the children as they grow older, and they may easily develop heart problems.