This is indeed a good question. Here I might as well share with you a real example from a friend around me.
He is a good friend of mine for many years. We have been together since elementary school and junior high school. His grades have always been at the bottom of the class, his appearance is also crooked, and he basically has no future at first glance. Our school has always been a bad school, so no one is optimistic about his future. It is basically certain that after graduating from junior high school, he will go to a vocational school and then start working.
But his mother has always had high expectations for her son. She absolutely does not want her child to be so mediocre. The kind and ordinary mother has no ability or channels to help her child. The only thing she could do was to go to a well-known temple here, take her son's birthday and horoscopes, and find an eminent monk to unravel the future.
The eminent monk's explanation was far beyond the mother's expectations. The prophecy showed that the child would not only obtain a graduate degree, but also have a stable and happy life, and also calculated the time for his marriage. Although you won't be rich, you can still have enough food and clothing and not worry about money.
After my mother came back, she excitedly told him about it, but of course he didn't believe it. He just told us about it as a joke, and naturally we all didn't take it seriously.
After graduating from junior high school, our grades were indeed not good, and his grades were barely enough to go to the worst high school. But his mother was determined not to let her child sink under the influence of a bad school environment, so she found many connections and spent a lot of money to send him to a school that was still ordinary, but relatively better. 's school.
Unfortunately, things did not get better. He was still struggling in this school until he failed the college entrance examination as expected and had to reluctantly go to an ordinary junior college.
The training model of junior college is very different from that of undergraduate, and is basically similar to vocational education. All students are actively looking for jobs, developing professional skills, or just like ordinary college students, wasting their time in online games. Naturally, my friends are the same. They surf the Internet at night, skip classes, sleep in class, and cheat on exams. They are basically no different from other decadent college students.
In the second semester of his junior year, everyone began to look for jobs, and he also returned home. He said he was preparing for his graduation defense, but in fact he had nothing to do. At this time, it was still five years before he got married, and he didn't even have a girlfriend.
The magic is here. He did nothing. Suddenly one day, a classmate with whom he had never been in contact suddenly visited his home. He said that there was an application for a junior college to bachelor's degree. He passed by his home, so he came to sit down. But he, who had always been procrastinating in doing things, actually prepared many materials needed for registration in just over an hour, and decisively decided to register with them.
After only spending 10 days reviewing, he actually entered the undergraduate program with the first place in the college-to-undergraduate examination and got a girlfriend at the same time. Two years later, he was admitted to graduate school, and when he was about to graduate, he got married to his girlfriend. Three years later, he was admitted as a civil servant. Although he usually worked very hard and his salary was less than 3,000 per month, he was basically able to meet his daily life.
So do people really have a destiny? Or did the master's predictions have a psychological suggestion effect on him, making him extremely sensitive to this information, so that he would seize the opportunity every time and work secretly in this direction? I don’t know either. I only know that the most critical steps in his life trajectory cannot be grasped by hard work alone.
Is this the power of faith or the arrangement of fate? I really can’t tell.
This friend later firmly believed in the words of destiny, but it was a pity that the master’s few words could not give him a glimpse of everything in the future. Now, like me, he is constantly groping in confusion. forward.
I think that the so-called destiny only exerts a little influence on the path you choose to walk. It's like a force has given you some guidance, making you more convinced of the path you're taking.
In fact, this belief is also illusory and baseless. So in the final analysis, people still need to have a positive attitude towards life, have a firm belief in the future, and believe that there will be a road before the car reaches the mountain. No matter how low you are in life, never give up. Know how to comfort yourself when you are lonely.
Whether it is fate or deception, as long as it can make people move forward, we can believe it.
Whether it's fate or advice, if it's a prophecy that makes people fall into negativity and despair, we can rise up and resist and choose? My fate is up to me! ?
I hope you can also believe that your life trajectory will be smooth and smooth in the direction of your goals. You are destined to make great strides forward on the road to success!