Husband 1980 at 8: 00 am on the third day of September, and I 1987 at 4: 00 am on June 15, and the eight characters don't match. I have been unlucky.

Your situation is quite special, so you don't have to look at the eight characters carefully. In terms of age difference, this situation is inevitable. In your subconscious, you will treat your husband as a little brother. You may be more careful and thoughtful when you consider the problem. There is nothing wrong with this in itself, but your family will feel uncomfortable. This is a psychological problem. Your words and deeds should take care of your husband's psychological feelings. This is my advice to you.

Secondly, when women are older than men, women will appear older than men (of course, this is only the whole). I suggest you dress up more. Men like spoiled women. Women should be hard on themselves (dare to spend money on themselves), otherwise men will easily spend money on other women.

Marriage is fate, and it is impossible to share the same bed. Now that you are married, you don't have to worry about whether you are married or not, but you should think more about how to manage your marriage better. Good luck.